If you could imagine your twin flame being unhappily married with a spouse who isn’t right for them, would you do anything differently?
It happens – sometimes it’s just the way things go.
But if that’s the case, what should we be doing now? Here are 15 things you can do if you think your twin flame is being held back in their relationship.
1) Communicate with your twin flame in a non-judgemental way
If you want your twin flame to fulfill their purpose, you need to communicate with them in a compassionate and non-judgemental way.
It’s important not to project our fears and insecurities onto them.
We need to create an atmosphere of safety and self-awareness.
If you regularly react harshly or judge them, it will unconsciously make them feel unworthy to achieve their greatness. It will stop them from moving forward with their mission.
2) Check out how you might be contributing to the unhappiness of your twin flame
Think about this for a moment:
Are you the reason why your twin flame is unhappy?
This can apply to partners, family members, and society in general.
Our role as a transmitter of karma, mirroring others’ faults and misfortunes, cannot be denied.
This also includes our intimate relationship with our significant other.
So if your twin flame feels stuck in their current relationship, ask yourself:
- Could it be because they are being held back by you not being able to love them?
- Is it because of issues with self-worth or flaws that they perceive but aren’t yours?
- Or perhaps you are holding them back from achieving their full potential?
If this is the case, then you will have to change on your own. You can’t change someone else’s behavior. The best thing to do would be to ask them directly – if they say yes, start thinking about what exactly it is that you’re doing wrong.
3) Set clear boundaries
If you are not clear with what you want, then others will also be unclear.
And when they don’t know exactly what they want, they’re bound to feel insecure in their relationships.
It’s important to be honest with yourself about your boundaries.
This doesn’t have to mean that you cut off all contact with your twin flame.
Just that you make sure to communicate with them clearly and understand the level of intimacy that you require from them. This will stop the unnecessary drama and drama-causing situations from happening in your life.
4) Get professional guidance
The points we cover in this article will give you a good idea of what to do if your twin flame is unhappily married.
But even with our expert advice, we know how unique every situation is.
That’s why we recommend getting a personalized reading to really address the issues you’re facing.
The key, however, is finding someone trustworthy to speak to.
After a really challenging time in my love life, I found that speaking to an advisor from Psychic Source gave me the strength and motivation to get my life back on track.
The advisor I spoke to was kind, understanding of my situation, and genuinely helpful.
My love reading shed light on my situation in a way I wasn’t able to see on my own, and I was finally able to clear my head and heal my heart.
Not only can a gifted advisor tell you whether or not your twin flame is happily married, but they can reveal all your future love possibilities.
5) Take note of any red flags
If you think your twin flame is being held back in their relationship, it’s important to do a deep reading and bring forward any red flags.
This will help you understand what exactly is holding them back and help you direct clear communication so that they can get where they need to go.
Here are a few red flags that might indicate your twin flame is struggling:
- Financial Insecurity or lack of support.
- Lack of connectivity.
- Problems in the relationship that would make it hard for one person to move forward alone, e.g. major trust issues, lack of communication, selfishness, manipulation.
- Any signs of infidelity in the relationship (especially if the individual is reluctant to communicate).
So if your twin flame is unhappy with their marriage but refuses to change things, you need to take the red flag approach.
6) Encourage your twin flame and his/her spouse to find some form of couples therapy
There are many different forms of therapy, so finding something that will really help them resolve their issues might take some time.
Couples therapy can be a huge help in rekindling the lost love and connection between partners.
It’s a great way to improve communication, resolve negative traits and behaviors that are causing unhappiness, and increase appreciation for one another.
But wait, there’s more!
Couples therapy can also help partners heal from past relationships and relationship issues from the past.
This is extremely helpful if the twin flame is the one who is feeling unfulfilled in the marriage.
It can be really difficult to move forward from a previous relationship and focus on new love if you constantly feel emotionally tied to an ex-partner. Couples therapy helps partners heal, learn how to trust again, and avoid past mistakes in future relationships.
7) Show your twin flame you’re on the same page
No one should feel as though they have to carry the proverbial weight of your pain and sadness.
- Try showing your twin flame you’ve got their back by doing the following:
- Honor them with love and compassion
- Share what they’re going through
- Ask them how they feel – and listen carefully
- Give them space, don’t invade their personal space with negativity or false encouragement
- Don’t force communication – it will come in its own time
- Realize that your twin flame doesn’t need you getting all judgmental on them or contacting any family members to tell them how awful married life is for you.
Keep in mind that:
Showing you’re on the same page means that you’re not bringing drama into their life. You’re letting them know that whatever they’re going through, you’ll still support them and always be there for them.
8) Help them find their spiritual self
This is a really big one.
After all, your twin flame can overcome a lot of things if they’re truly dedicated to spiritual growth.
They can do this by participating in a form of meditation (such as chakra balancing) or by clearing their mind and meditating on nature.
They can also listen to healing music, which relaxes them and sets the intention for spiritual growth.
But these things aren’t enough and need to happen on a regular basis.
That’s why I recommend getting a personalized reading by one of the gifted advisors over at Psychic Source.
I mentioned them earlier.
They’ve been a great source of comfort and guidance when I’ve faced issues in my love life, and their specialist advisers are well trained in the area of twin flame relationships.
They can pinpoint where your twin flame needs to focus their spiritual energy and give them the guidance they need to grow into the person they truly are.
So, what are you waiting for?
From giving you clarity on the situation to supporting you as you make life-changing decisions, these advisors will empower you to make decisions about your love life with confidence.
9) Show your love in a different way
Here is another simple yet helpful way to show your love and support for your twin flame.
Naturally, you want to be their rock through all the ups and downs of marriage, but that’s not the only way you can show them how much you care.
You can also show your support and love by helping them to do things they like.
If they love to read, then get them a book or suggest they go to the library.
If your twin flame likes going for walks in nature, try joining them.
This reminds them that you’re there and supports their interests because you both want to be there for each other.
This will go a long way towards helping them feel loved and appreciated, something that will always be needed in their relationship.
10) Don’t settle for anything less than 100%
OK, I know what you’re thinking:
“This is a chance to be with my twin flame, right? That’s all I’m after, right?”
The above thoughts are exactly what the universe has equipped you with.
Because twin flame bondings are meant to transcend the physical realm, meaning you’re not just physically connecting with your twin flame, but you’re also metaphysically connecting with them.
However, this does not mean that you should settle for anything less than 100% from your twin flame (in case their marriage is over)
You’re looking for an eternal bond, and every effort must be made by both of you to keep that vision alive and constant.
No matter what, your twin flame must be 100% committed to your relationship, and not flake out, hurt you, play games or pull away in any way.
11) Follow your intuition and do something that feels right
Your intuition is a gift that must be respected and cultivated.
It will guide you through any confusing or difficult situation, so it’s vital that you pay attention to it.
If you want to know what you should do in order to help your twin flame, then your intuition will tell you.
In fact, it is one of the two most important things you can do to strengthen your relationship with your twin flame.
Not only will following your intuition help you to grow as a person and gain clarity, but it will also help you to heal in a very literal sense:
Following your intuition will help keep you focused on why you’re doing everything that you’re doing.
It will give you the motivation and strength to stick to the path that’s best for both of you.
12) Be willing to sacrifice
This means that you have to be willing to put down all of your own needs, desires, and wants for the sake of your twin flame.
Is this easy?
Nope! It can be really hard!
You’d be surprised at just how much pain or discomfort you can feel when you’re forced to sacrifice for the greater good of a relationship.
For example, you might have to give up your career in order to be at home and take care of the house because your twin flame doesn’t have a job or is suffering from a mental condition.
You might have to stop hanging out with friends or going out for fun activities because it’s too much work to juggle their relationships and yours.
No matter what, you must be willing to sacrifice for the greater good of your relationship with your twin flame. That’s why it’s so important to be able to put your needs first, especially when you’re working on healing your twin flame!
13) Explore more spiritual practices together
If you truly want to be a solid support system for your twin flame, then you absolutely have to explore more spiritual practices together.
Not only will you both benefit from this, but it will give you something to do together, which is important because many twin flames feel isolated or alone when they’re going through marriage or divorce.
This includes exploring such practices as meditation, affirmations, and gratitude.
Spiritual practices will help you to be more self-aware.
And this will help you to discover things about yourself that you didn’t even know you had.
You may be surprised at what happens to your twin flame when they’re open to exploring these sorts of practices together.
So be prepared to take advantage of this.
14) Let them seek their own answers
Now, let me make something perfectly clear.
We’re not telling you to sit back and watch your twin flame suffer.
You should absolutely give them advice and try to help them get their life together, but you cannot force your life or opinions onto them.
This is the biggest mistake we see lots of people make:
- They assume that their twin flame must change for them.
- They assume that they are the only ones who can help their twin flame heal.
- They think they know what’s best for their twin flame and insist that they should move in with their parents, invest in their relationship, or join a 12-step program.
This is something we absolutely DO NOT support.
What you’re looking for is to be a helpful companion on your twins’ journey to healing, not to take over and change them.
So let them seek the answers they need on their own. Let them figure out what they want and where they’re going.
Whether they choose to give another shot at their marriage or not? It’s completely up to them.
You cannot force that sort of thing. What matters is that they are happy and feel safe and loved and that they know you’re there for them no matter what.
15) Don’t be afraid to take action if you want to be in a relationship with your twin flame
Since your twin flame is unhappily married, you may want to take action in order to manifest a relationship with them.
This is something that everyone wants, but it’s not easy to do if you’re just sitting around twiddling your thumbs waiting for things to happen.
This doesn’t mean that you just hop on a plane (or even better, a helicopter) and fly to California to surprise your twin flame.
It just means that you do the things that you need to do to move forward in the direction that you want.
There are many steps along this path, but there’s no reason why they have to be difficult or complicated.
If you’re truly committed to getting what you want, then it’s not going to be difficult at all.
You just need to work hard at doing whatever it takes in order for things to happen. Because twin flame relationships work differently than most other relationships, you should expect that things won’t be easy.
We’ve covered 15 things that you can do in order to support your twin flame.
Now, the tricky part is figuring out which of these things works best for you and your situation.
Some of these things may not apply to your twin flame at all, and that’s perfectly okay!
There isn’t a “one size fits all” approach to helping anyone, so don’t stress out if none of these tips make sense for you.
However, if you’d still like to get more clarity on the situation, speaking to a gifted advisor is the best way to go.
I mentioned Psychic Source earlier. Based on my own personal experience with them, I know they’re the real deal. Their advisors are kind and genuinely helpful.
So, if you really want to get to the bottom of why your twin flame isn’t happy in their relationship, get in touch with an advisor and take your future into your own hands. I did, and it changed my life. Click here to get your own love reading.