My twin flame is unhappily married: How I found resolution

Personally, I’m not a fan of the idea of a third person in any marriage.

Because let’s be real, there are plenty of single people out there still searching for their other half.

Regardless, love is love, right?

And we only have one twin flame in our lifetime.

If you believe the person you’re in love with is your twin flame, even if they’re married, who am I to judge?

I get it though, finding out your twin flame is tied up in a not-so-happy marriage can feel like a huge betrayal.

Like, how could they be unhappy and still stay with someone?

It’s a tough pill to swallow.

But, don’t lose hope.

There are ways to cope and help your twin flame move on from a bad marriage toward your connection together.

1) Acceptance

Firstly, you need to understand that accepting the twists and turns of the twin flame journey is crucial.

Even if it means accepting that your twin flame may not be ready for a relationship with you or that they may have chosen to commit to their marriage.

But let’s be real, their decisions are ultimately out of your control.

It’s like trying to control the weather, it’s impossible.

No matter how harsh it may be, you just have to understand that.

I have a friend who was in a similar situation.

At first, she was feeling like a rejected lover and was angry and resentful towards her twin flame for not being able to be with her since he was married.

But then she had a lightbulb moment and realized that acceptance was key to understanding the situation and taking the necessary steps to move forward.

With acceptance, she was able to find peace and contentment within herself as she continued her twin flame journey.

It’s also important to remember that there may never come a time when both parties are completely on the same page.

For example, you might think your twin flame would be better off without their spouse.

After all, they don’t seem too happy in the marriage.

But your twin flame might disagree due to certain circumstances.

This doesn’t mean that either one of you is wrong or right, no.

It just means that sometimes compromise needs to happen for progress toward healing and growth together as a couple.

By accepting these realities, you’re setting the stage for understanding, respect, and love between you and your twin flame.

So, take a deep breath, let go of control and let the journey unfold, and be ready for some unexpected turns.

It’s all part of your love adventure!

2) Patience

Patience is another key when it comes to the twin flame journey.

Especially when your twin flame is currently tied up with someone else.

I know it can be tough to keep calm and carry on.

But remember, this process takes time and there’s no way around it.

For my friend, the first step in cultivating patience was accepting that her journey was not going as she expected or hoped.

She had to accept that her twin flame wasn’t ready for a committed relationship with her at the time and that it would take time for him to come around.

Once she accepted the current circumstances, she was able to focus on small goals on how to improve the relationship instead of trying to rush through the entire process.

You have to also be mindful of your expectations for your twin flame relationship.

Don’t get caught up in daydreaming about how things could be if only certain conditions were met.

This will only lead to frustration and disappointment when reality doesn’t match up!

Because patience isn’t just about waiting around for good stuff to happen.

It’s about taking action and making positive changes in yourself and your relationship with your twin flame (if applicable).

This could be setting boundaries to make sure both parties feel respected, learning how to communicate better, or making time for self-care like meditation or journaling.

By consistently doing these things over time, you create an environment where growth is possible (even if progress feels slow at times).

Just remember, not to get too down on yourself if things with your unhappily married twin flame aren’t moving as quickly as you want.

It’s all just part of the process.

Meanwhile, don’t forget to have a little fun by doing things that you love while you ‘enjoy’ the waiting game!

It’s important to maintain a balance and not solely focus all of your attention on the relationship.

3) Communication

Communication is the key to any relationship, but it’s like super glue when it comes to twin flame journeys.

You have to be open and honest with your twin flame about EVERYTHING.

Like, what’s the deal with their marriage, their feelings, and what they expect from you.

It might sound scary, but it will make sure everyone’s needs are met.

Just ask my friend, she used to hint at her feelings and ended up in a whole mess.

I mean, are we surprised?

But once she started being clear and direct with her twin flame, it was like night and day.

It made a HUGE difference in their communication.

And remember, listening is just as important as talking.

So make sure to pay attention to what your twin flame is saying and take turns speaking.

That way you both have a chance to express yourselves without interruption or judgment.

Patience is also a big one in communication.

Take your time to think before you speak as it will save you from a lot of misunderstandings.

And don’t forget to pay attention to nonverbal cues like body language and gestures.

It can tell you a lot about how someone is feeling (or hinting).

I’m not going to lie and say it will all be smooth sailing because it won’t.

It can be tough.

That’s why it’s necessary for you and your twin flame to give each other some support during this confusing time, which I’ll explain more below.

4) Support

Be there

It’s all about being there for each other.

Show each other some love and support.

Let your twin flame know that you’re there to listen to everything, including their marriage problems, without judging them.

That’s what true love is about.

Be their rock, their go-to for emotional support.

When my friend’s twin flame was going through a rough patch, she made sure to always be there for him.

She sent them all these encouraging messages, would call just to check in and let him know she was always there for him no matter what.

It helped her twin flame a lot, and it helped her understand him and his situation better, and strengthen their connection.

Give space

Sometimes the best thing you can do for your twin flame is to give them some space.

Like, if they need some alone time, respect their wishes and don’t take it personally.

Because everyone needs some distance sometimes.

Just like my friend, her twin flame needed some space to process things.

She did give him space but she didn’t just ghost him, no.

She made sure to check in with him regularly, sending him messages or giving him a call and letting him know she was still there for him if he needed anything.

And you know what?

After her twin flame took some time, he eventually came back to her and they were able to talk about their situation and understand each other better.

So, don’t be afraid to give your twin flame some space.

It’s not easy to be in an unhappy marriage while being in love with someone else (you).

It could just be exactly what they need.

Offer practical help

If you can, don’t just offer emotional support, throw in some practical help too.

Run some errands for them.

Help out with chores around the house.

Anything that can take some weight off your twin flame’s shoulders will be greatly appreciated.

For example, imagine your twin flame is going through a tough time and you offer to help with their errands or take care of their pet.

That’s love right there!

It doesn’t only make a big difference in their life but also helps them focus on their own issues.

And remember, no matter how tough the situation may seem, there’s always support available to help you through your twin flame journey.

So don’t be afraid to ask for help from your friends or family.

5) Resolution

Resolution is a BIG part of the twin flame journey.

It’s not exactly easy, though.

It’s all about finding a solution that works for everyone, no matter the outcome.

But it takes both parties coming together, being open and understanding of each other’s feelings and perspectives.

The first step to coming to a resolution is acceptance.

You have to accept that you’re not always gonna see eye to eye with your twin flame, but which is okay!

As long as you’re willing to find common ground and work towards a solution together.

Next, patience.

Don’t expect things to change overnight.

Take your time working through any disagreements or misunderstandings until you reach an agreement that works for everyone involved.

Communication is also essential.

Make sure both parties feel heard and understood before coming up with a plan of action.

And don’t forget to listen actively.

Support is equally important.

Having someone who understands your situation can make a significant difference in resolving conflicts with your twin flame, whether you’re staying together despite their marriage issues, or going your separate ways.

And don’t be afraid to seek help from friends and family who understand what you’re going through.

Finally, after all these steps, comes the actual resolution.

It’s all about finding a solution that works for you and your twin flame, regardless of whether they stay married or leave it behind for new beginnings with you altogether.

And remember, compromise doesn’t mean giving up everything just because somebody else wants something different than what you want.

It means finding a solution where everyone gets at least some of what they want.

Don’t lose hope

Dating someone who’s already married is never going to be an easy ride.

Especially, when you’re convinced they’re your twin flame.

But it will teach you some valuable lessons, for sure.

Like the importance of having the patience of a saint and the ability to accept that not everything goes according to plan.

And let’s not forget the power of communication.

Without it, you’ll be left guessing what your twin flame is thinking and feeling.

But if you’re willing to put in the time and effort, you might just come out on top.

And hey, if you’re lucky, you might even end up with your twin flame by your side.

Just remember to be patient, communicate openly, and show some understanding and support.

It’s all going to work out in the end!