Do you know what most people picture when they think about twin flames?
A man and a woman locked in an unending passionate embrace!
Twin flames are rarely portrayed as two men with blazing chemistry who want to give themselves completely to each other.
Or, as two women so perfectly matched that they are meant to walk on the same path together.
Is it because we have been conditioned to believe that twin flames have a heterosexual connection?
While that may be true, from a non-physical point of view, the two sides of your soul spark the same electric attraction regardless of gender.
So, what happens if you are gay and your twin flame is straight?
Let’s take a closer look at what this experience is all about.
Coming to terms with your twin flame’s sexual orientation
Here’s the first thing that you should keep in mind: There is no right or wrong sexual orientation.
Sure, you’re most likely very confused because you were not expecting to find your counterpart or discover that they’re straight.
When this happens to you, it might sound a lot like bad news because it changes things. However, it doesn’t have to change them completely.
Even if your twin flame is straight, you two share a very powerful connection. Since this connection has been forged through the soul, it tends to override the physical.
In other words, when the souls of twin flames meet, it doesn’t matter who is gay or straight. They are meant to be together.
Their souls are meant to find a way because they are destined to love each other unconditionally.
The relationship that they share is very special, so if you think that you’re going to deny yourself this experience just because your counterpart is straight, think again.
Remember, no matter what you share with them, it will be as intense as possible and will last a lifetime.
What’s more, there are many things you can do to let go of the expectation that your counterpart should also be your lover. But more about that later.
Why being gay is not a deal-breaker for your twin flame journey
Would you like to know one of the most destructive misconceptions about twin flame relationships?
Their sexual orientations have to be compatible. However, this notion couldn’t be further from the truth.
The truth is that, after you meet your twin flame, you will eventually realize that his or her sexual orientation has nothing to do with the spiritual connection between you two.
On top of that, whether you’re gay or straight doesn’t change anything about your spiritual path either.
So, regardless of your sexual orientation, you can still achieve the same astonishing results on your twin flame journey.
Why is your twin flame needed in your life?
While there’s no way to know for sure, here are a few possibilities:
Maybe your twin flame is bringing you a new perspective on life. Maybe they are inspiring you towards greatness.
Whatever the reason, it is important to not let the fact that your twin flame is heterosexual affect your relationship with them.
But what if your sexual attraction to them is unstoppable?
At first, you might feel overwhelmed with feelings of desire and lust.
But that’s not necessarily a bad thing, because there are two very important things to keep in mind:
- This person is your counterpart; the other half of your soul – a person you will love unconditionally and who will love you back. Feeling drawn to them is completely normal.
- The imbalance that you’re experiencing now will not last forever. The energy exchange between twin flames is meant to be two-way.
However, when it comes to twin flame relationships, we tend to overthink and obsess about everything because this is a whole new experience for us.
What would a gifted advisor say?
The points we cover in this article will give you a good idea of why you and your twin flame have different sexual orientations.
But since your situation is unique to you, the best thing you can do is get tailored advice.
That’s why we recommend getting a personalized psychic reading to really address the issues you’re facing.
The key, however, is finding someone trustworthy to speak to.
After a really challenging time in my twin flame journey, I found that speaking to an advisor from Psychic Source gave me the strength and motivation to get my relationship back on track.
The advisor I spoke to was kind, understanding of my situation, and genuinely helpful.
My love reading shed light on my situation in a way I wasn’t able to see on my own, and I was finally able to clear my head and heal my heart.
Not only can a gifted advisor tell you where things really stand with your twin flame, but they can reveal all your future love possibilities.
Why are twin flames rarely gay?
Like all souls, mirror souls are not limited by gender, color, sexual orientation, or any other factor. Yet, society has created a strong narrative around twin flames that associates them with heterosexuality.
This is not true. You can find your twin flame in a heterosexual person, a homosexual, a bisexual, or even in a transgender person.
In this regard, there’s one important thing to note: when you fall in love with your twin flame, you will start to forget about their gender, their sexual orientation, and even their physical appearance.
You’ll become so immersed in the feeling of your twin flame connecting with you that nothing else will matter anymore. Only the connection you have with them.
But as you’re building a solid foundation for your twin flame connection, keep in mind that your love for them is more powerful than anything in the physical world.
What does it mean to be gay and have a straight twin flame?
Twin flames are parts of old souls that are meant to be present in each other’s lives, even the most intimate parts of it.
So, when that doesn’t happen, what does it mean?
Simply put, being gay and having a straight twin flame means that one part of your shared soul has chosen to go the path of homosexuality, while the other side of your soul has chosen the path of heterosexuality.
The two sides of your soul have the same powerful connection, but they are just following different paths – sexually speaking, not spiritually speaking.
You might feel attracted to your twin flame. However, at the same time, you might also feel that your sexual orientation is pulling you in a different direction.
As much as you’d like to be together with your twin flame, your sexual identity might determine you to stay true to yourself and follow your own path romantically.
And that’s not wrong! In fact, being true to yourself is one of the most powerful things you can do.
Remember, regardless of your counterpart’s sexual preferences, they are still a part of you and you are a part of them. This connection will not change – not even if you want to.
How can you find happiness in this situation?
The truth is, even if your twin flame is straight, you can still have a fulfilling relationship.
Twin flames are meant to help each other on their spiritual journey, so if your twin flame is straight, you can still help each other grow spiritually.
You can also explore your sexual energy in healthy ways – even if you are gay – that don’t involve having sex with your twin flame. In simpler words, you can be intimate with your twin flame in non-sexual ways, such as hugging and holding each other.
How to cope when you are gay and your twin flame is straight?
When you are gay and your twin flame is straight, it can definitely be challenging.
First and foremost, as mentioned before, you must understand that this experience has a deeper purpose. You and your twin flame are drawn together because you have something very special to offer each other.
That’s why you must learn to navigate this experience with an open heart and with compassion for both yourself and your twin flame.
In the end, you will both come out much stronger and more fulfilled, and you will have a deeper understanding of your own divine purpose.
However, in the meantime, you should make sure to get your needs met. Nurture your mind, body, and spirit so that you have the strength to stay true to yourself.
Are they really your twin flame?
So far, we’ve talked about the crushing possibility that your twin flame is straight, while you’re gay.
But, have you ever considered the possibility that this person might not be your twin flame? Are you sure they’re not your false twin flame?
Here’s the truth – the universe has a funny habit of sending lessons your way in disguise.
You may feel like you’ve met “the one”, only to be left disappointed and heartbroken.
But what if you could get the all-important details right now?
For years this seemed like only wishful thinking until I learned about a professional psychic artist who could create a sketch of what my twin flame looked like.
I’ll admit, it sounded too good to be true at first. But so deeply ready to welcome my twin flame into my life, I decided to take the chance.
Several months later, a friend of a friend introduced us at a party. I think my jaw must have dropped instantly to the floor.
If you want to know what your twin flame looks like, get your own sketch drawn here.
Who knows, maybe your true twin flame is also gay and you’re now losing precious time on the wrong person.
3 ways to let go of the expectation that your twin flame must be your lover
1) Know that you are more than your sexuality
Your sexuality is important, and it is part of who you are, but it is not everything.
Your twin flame will not fall in love with you because you are gay, and they will not stop loving you because you are gay.
So you need to let go of the expectation that your twin flame must be your lover and lover only.
2) Think of your twin flame as your best friend
Instead of imagining that your twin flame will be your lover, imagine that he or she will be your best friend.
To do so, focus on what you have in common, not on what you don’t have in common.
If you let go of the expectation that your twin flame must be your lover, you can open up to the possibility of having a great friendship with him or her.
3) Remember that love is about connection, not about having sex
Look: I’m not going to lie to you. Sex is an important part of love, but the physical act of sex is only one aspect of love.
In this regard, keep in mind that you can have a great connection with your twin flame without having any kind of physical contact with them.
So, focusing on the aspects of your twin flame that are still available to you, not on the ones that are unavailable to you, would be a great step forward.
You are gay and your twin flame is straight – What next?
The twin flame connection is a powerful and magical experience.
That’s why it is important that you let go of any preconceptions or expectations that you might have about it and simply open yourself up to the experience.
Your twin flame can be anyone, regardless of their gender or sexual orientation, and by letting go of any expectations, you can truly open yourself up to the beauty of this connection.