My twin flame hates me: 15 tips if this is you

If you’ve met your twin flame then you know how special and intense twin flame relationships can be.

You thought that once you’ve found your twin, you’d live happily ever after, but now you find yourself thinking, ‘My twin flame hates me” and you don’t know what to do.

Here are 15 tips if this is you:

1. Don’t panic

If you start to feel that the love of your life hates you, don’t panic! It’s only a feeling that they hate you – it’s very different from them actually hating you.

When someone really hates you and gives up on your relationship, they have no need to deceive themselves or you: it’s as clear as day, and then and only then will they give up on the relationship.

The good news is that if you’re in a real twin flame relationship, there is still hope!

There may be hurt feelings or resentments that need healing, but it doesn’t mean that the person in front of you hates the essence of who you are.

2. Deal with your emotions in a healthy way

So, how exactly do you deal with your emotions in a healthy way?

First, don’t hide from your emotions. Let yourself feel sadness, hurt, and even anger.

If you don’t deal with these feelings in a healthy way, then they’ll only fester and grow on the inside – making the situation worse in the long run.

Second, speak to your twin flame about how you feel. Communication is the key to any successful relationship. Speaking about your feelings will not only be a load-off to you, but it may also encourage your twin to open up about how they feel and you may better understand their behavior.

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It’s important not to do anything drastic like cut off communication with them or send angry text messages. Allow yourself to feel your feelings, and don’t let your partner’s negativity get more and more entrenched in the relationship.

The more you feel the darkness, the less light they’ll feel. And when they don’t feel light, they won’t want to be with you.

If you react with anger or resentment or pain, that snatches away their light and keeps them away from you.

3. Get professional guidance

This article has a lot of great tips for someone who thinks that their twin flame hates them.

But even with our expert advice, we know how unique every situation is.

That’s why we recommend getting a personalized reading to really address the issues you’re facing.

The key, however, is finding someone trustworthy to speak to.

After a really challenging time in my love life, I found that speaking to an advisor from Psychic Source gave me the strength and motivation to get my life back on track.

The advisor I spoke to was kind, understanding of my situation, and genuinely helpful.

My love reading shed light on my situation in a way I wasn’t able to see on my own, and I was finally able to clear my head and heal my heart.

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Not only can a gifted advisor tell you whether your twin really hates you, but they can reveal all your future love possibilities.

4. Heal yourself from your past hurts

You may have experienced some hurt in the past which is coming up now and contributing to the feeling that your partner hates you.

Now, maybe there were other relationships in your past where you felt this way, so this situation is bringing all of those emotions up for you.

Maybe someone once told you that they hate you and it’s still ringing in your ears.

Whatever the case, you need to heal yourself from these hurts and bitterness before making a big commitment with your twin flame.

5. Be kind to yourself

You’re feeling that your twin hates you so you can’t imagine how they can love you.

This is only a feeling and it’s not real.

If you can take the time to listen to your negative thoughts, you can distance yourself from them and let them pass.

It may also help to share your feelings with a friend or a loved one who can help you through this crisis in your life.

When one of us is hurt or angry, it doesn’t mean we hate the other person. Love is an action and it transcends words.

While your twin may be going through something and not being a loving partner, you shouldn’t beat yourself up or blame yourself. Instead, show yourself some kindness and love.

During this difficult period, try and focus on doing things that you enjoy and that make you  happy.

Spend more time in nature. Find new hobbies. Hang out with your friends.

6. Focus on your goals

This is a good time to remember that your twin flame is an extension of yourself.

If you like what you see in yourself, you can’t not like them. You either love or don’t love who you see inside the mirror. And if you see someone amazing and wonderful and sweet, then it only makes sense that your twin flame would be amazing and wonderful too.

Keep your eyes on the prize: what do you want for your future? They will feel awesome about themselves once they are aligned with their true soul purpose. You just need to get there first or ignore your differences to get there together.

Let this motivate you to keep going and focus on your own goals and desires.

7. Search for your soulmate instead

If things aren’t working out with your twin flame in this lifetime, then maybe you should consider searching for your soulmate instead.

But how can you know for sure if you’ve met your genuine soulmate?

Let’s face it:

It’s not always easy to know when you’ve met “the one”. That’s why so many of us waste valuable emotions and time on relationships that never lead anywhere.

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8. Try and find a bright side

When you feel that your twin flame hates you, it’s hard to see anything positive in the situation. But in my experience, there’s almost always a bright side.

Think of it as a learning experience:

This rough patch you are going through with your twin flame could be teaching you something.

For example:

• You may be learning to let go of your emotional dependence on others
• You may be learning to love yourself more and be at peace with who you are
• Or maybe you’re learning that there is no such thing as a perfect relationship and that having your twin flame in your life can actually make you a better person – that learning to accept your differences can bring out the best in both of you.

9. Accept that there may be a bigger reason

Accept that there may be a bigger reason for their negative feelings

Twin flames are supposed to be a match: two halves of the same soul.

The truth is that if the relationship doesn’t feel right, then it’s usually because there is something bigger going on in their lives that is clashing with your energy and they can’t tell you.

When this happens, they may shut down emotionally and try to keep themselves safe from what they perceive as a threat to their well-being or happiness.

Here’s the deal:

They may feel insecure, stressed out, or overwhelmed by things that have nothing to do with you and so they hurt you by trying to protect themselves.

It’s not personal; it’s just how they deal with discomfort. They would rather take it out on you than face what’s really going on within them.

10. Accept that your twin can be in a bad mood

We all go through times when we don’t want to talk to people or spend time with them. Maybe it’s because we’re busy or maybe we’re just not in the mood.

Life is one big emotional roller coaster and sometimes we’re happy, and at other times we’re grumpy and take it out on the people closest to us.

Accepting that this is OK and normal can be very powerful. It’s like a big weight off your shoulders when you understand that nothing is wrong with you and that this happens to everyone, even your twin flame.

If they’re not talking to you for no apparent reason, then chances are there’s some emotional baggage that they need to process on their own before they can come back around to being their best self again.

Just know that your relationship doesn’t need to be perfect in order for it to be real.

Your twin flame doesn’t have to be 100% available for you all the time. They’re only human and they need their alone time just like anyone else.

If you feel that they hate you, then just remember that this is only a feeling and it’s not real (even if it feels like it). It’s your ego playing tricks on you.

The fact is that they do care about you and they love you because they chose to work on their issues so that they can fully commit to their soulmate relationship.

11. Give them space

Twin flames are not meant to do things together all the time.

They don’t have to be in constant contact with each other and they don’t have to be on the same page about everything 24/7.

Maybe the reason that your twin seems to hate you is simply that they need some time away from you.

Let me explain:

Just as you need some space to yourself sometimes, they too need to do things by themselves from time to time.

So, give them time and space they need and let them know that this is OK, that you’re not angry. This will give them a chance to miss you.

12. Don’t chase after them

When your relationship is stuck in a rut and it feels like your twin flame hates you, you need to be patient.

Don’t chase after them, give them the space they need.

They may be having a hard time processing some of their emotions about their past, or there could be something else going on in their life that you don’t know about at all.

So, what should you do?

Be available for your twin when they are ready to talk.

Don’t fight because that’s rarely ever effective and may end up making things worse; just sit back and wait until they are ready to talk again before intervening in any way.

If it feels like it’s taking too long, I recommend getting a personalized reading by one of the gifted advisors over at Psychic Source.

I mentioned them earlier.

They’ve been a great source of comfort and guidance when I’ve faced issues in my love life, and their specialist advisers are well trained in the area of twin flame trouble.

So, what are you waiting for?
From giving you clarity on the situation to supporting you as you make life-changing decisions, these advisors will empower you to make decisions about your love life with confidence.

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13. Find out what’s really going in their head

If you are having a hard time wrapping your head around why your twin flame is acting the way they are, then you can always ask them.

Try not to make the conversation into this big emotional scene; simply ask them what’s going on and what they’re thinking. You’d be surprised how much more likely they are to open up to you if they know that this will not turn into a big argument afterward.

The truth is that reality is often less awful than what we imagine.

We build things up in our heads and imagine all sorts of things – like that our twin flame hates us – and when we actually talk about it, we find out that it isn’t true at all.

You see, if you never questioned why they’re behaving a certain way, you probably assumed that it was because of something that you did wrong, but there are probably many other reasons for their behavior. Try and find out what they are.

Maybe they’re stressed at work, or maybe there’s some other issue going on in their life that you don’t know about. There could be a family problem or some financial difficulties which are causing them to distance themselves from the relationship right now.

It’s up to you to find out what it is and ask them about it so that you can reach a resolution together.

14. Try to be realistic in your expectations

It’s easy to get caught up in the idea of having a perfect twin flame. Just look at all the stories we see about soulmates and twin flames in the movies.

We become so used to these stories that we may think that true love is a feeling of romantic chemistry and fireworks, but it’s not.

True love is a connection between two souls who have found each other for a divine purpose.

True love is about giving, not taking or receiving, and loving your partner for who they are, not what they do for you.

Real relationships take hard work and are not always problem-free. Nobody is perfect, both you and your twin come with baggage.

The beauty of a twin flame relationship is that you have someone you are compatible with, who loves, and accepts you as you are.

All in all, when your twin finally gets to a point where they are willing to work through their issues, then they will become the perfect partner for you.

15. Consider that maybe they’re not your true twin

Lastly, if you think your twin really does hate you and there’s no other explanation for their behavior, it’s possible that they are in fact not your true twin flame.

You see, sometimes we are so eager to be reunited with our twin flame and we make a mistake.

Maybe you were both so excited at the thought of this reunion that you rushed in without taking the time to see if you are truly twins.

If things aren’t working out between you two, they may be feeling disappointed and resentful.

It’s worth considering that they may not be your true twin flame. And if they are and you are meant to be together, you will be.

If you’d still like to get more clarity on the situation, speaking to a gifted advisor is the best way to go.

I mentioned Psychic Source earlier. Based on my own personal experience with them, I know they’re the real deal. Their advisors are kind and genuinely helpful.

So, if you really want to know if they’re your real twin flame, get in touch with an advisor and take your future into your own hands. I did, and it changed my life.

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