Twin flame relationships are among the deepest and most powerful connections out there.
But what if the timing is just not right?
Here are 10 signs that you’re meeting your twin flame at the wrong time and what you can do about that!
1) You’re too busy
If you’re too busy with your day-to-day life and need to make time for your own self-care, it’s time to reevaluate your priorities.
Twin flames are about the deepest connection you can find in a relationship.
So, if you don’t have the time or energy to invest in such a commitment, it’s best not to pursue it any further for now.
As much as we want something, if it doesn’t feel right in our soul and our heart is telling us no, sometimes it’s better just to listen and move on.
I know that’s probably not what you want to hear, especially if only one of the two twin flames is too busy, but it’s true!
Think about it: would you rather have a half-hearted relationship where one person is always somewhere else in their mind, or would you want a deep, passionate, soul-deep connection with someone who is fully present?
There is nothing wrong with either of you when the timing just isn’t right.
You see, sometimes, when we’re at different stages of our life and our lives are going in different directions, we don’t know how to navigate those waters.
The best thing to do is to consider that maybe it’s not a bad idea to have a break from each other for a bit.
You’ll get over it eventually and realize that you’re better off without them if this relationship isn’t going anywhere and if it’s not meant to be.
2) You’re not ready for a deep and serious relationship
If you’re not ready for a deep and serious relationship, then it’s possible you’re meeting your twin flame at the wrong time.
Maybe you’ve been focusing on your career recently, or maybe you just don’t want to be in a serious relationship right now.
If that sounds like you, the next step is to stop trying to force something that isn’t meant to happen.
You need to focus on yourself first before anything else.
If you’re not ready for something serious yet, then it’s best if you continue being friends with this person and letting things unfold naturally as time goes by.
Put your energy into creating solid friendships with them so they know they have someone who has their back no matter what happens.
You can have a deep, meaningful friendship with your twin flame.
3) You don’t believe in love anymore
If you don’t believe in love anymore, it could be that the timing is just not right.
You see, when you meet your twin flame, they may help you believe in love again, but if you’re currently going through a breakup or have trust issues, then the timing may not be right.
The thing is, two happy, healthy individuals are the basis of a happy, healthy relationship.
Think about it: if one of the partners doesn’t believe in love or has some serious issues right now, how can the relationship be healthy?
It can’t! You need to heal in order to not project issues onto your partner.
It’s true, for many people, their twin flame helps them overcome their struggles with love.
But to be fair, some people are better off healing on their own first.
If you are the twin flame that still believes in love, all you can do in this situation is support your twin flame on their healing journey or give them space.
The points we cover in this article will give you a good idea of what it means to meet your twin flame at the wrong time.
But even with our expert advice, we know how unique every situation is.
That’s why we recommend getting a personalized reading to really address the issues you’re facing.
The key, however, is finding someone trustworthy to speak to.
After a really challenging time in my love life, I found that speaking to an advisor from Psychic Source gave me the strength and motivation to get my life back on track.
The advisor I spoke to was kind, understanding of my situation, and genuinely helpful.
My love reading shed light on my situation in a way I wasn’t able to see on my own, and I was finally able to clear my head and heal my heart.
Not only can a gifted advisor tell you whether it’s the wrong time for you and your twin flame, but they can reveal all your future love possibilities.
4) You just want to be friends
If you’re not sure about your feelings for the person, but you feel like you’re just friends, it might be a sign that you’re meeting your twin flame at the wrong time.
You may be too afraid to commit or you might not know if this is what you want.
What can you do in this situation?
You could talk to them about your feelings and see what they think.
Ask yourself if there’s a chance that these feelings will change over time and make an honest decision about the relationship status.
If not, then consider the alternatives to having a romantic relationship with them right now:
- Friends with benefits
- Just friends
- No contact
I want to mention again that there is no such thing as one correct way to be with a twin flame.
Twin flame relationships come in all shapes and sizes, so just because one of you wants to be nothing more than friends doesn’t necessarily mean the timing is wrong.
This one can get tricky though, especially if one of you sees the relationship as platonic while the other caught feelings.
If that’s the case, some space might be the answer for you. Nothing is more triggering and painful than being in love with someone who just wants to be friends!
On that note:
5) The other person is more into you than you are into them
If you’re not feeling the same level of spark with your twin flame, there’s a chance that the other person is more into you than you are into them.
When it comes to relationships and twin flames, your emotions will be heightened.
You’ll be looking for any sign that this is the person you’ve been waiting for or that they feel the same way about you.
But if one person is more into the relationship than the other, it can lead to an imbalance in power dynamics.
This imbalance can make it difficult for both people to have their needs met in a healthy way. It can also cause some confusion around feelings and intentions.
This is why it’s important to take things slow when it comes to dating twin flames.
You don’t want to rush into something that might be what you’re supposed to do but not what you’re ready for.
You see, when a relationship is imbalanced and needs aren’t properly met, things can get very unhealthy very quickly.
This is why it’s important, to be honest with yourself about what you’re feeling and what your intentions are.
You can’t always read minds, but if one person seems really into the other, then it’s important to take things slow until you’re sure of where things stand.
If this is happening with your twin flame, then it’s important that both of you take some time apart to reconnect and see where things stand.
6) He/She doesn’t believe in twin flames
One of the first signs that you’re meeting your twin flame at the wrong time is if he or she doesn’t know who you really are because they don’t believe in twin flames.
When you meet a twin flame, there is often an immediate and intense connection.
This person knows all of your deepest thoughts, your innermost desires and has a deep understanding of who you truly are.
If he or she doesn’t know who you really are because they don’t believe in twin flames, this might be the wrong time to meet.
You see, not everyone believes in the concept of twin flames, and you can’t really blame them for it, can you?
It’s just too strange and mysterious to them.
The thing is, if someone isn’t really into the whole idea, it will be hard to convince them otherwise.
They will be resistant to the idea of being your twin flame.
If this is happening with your twin flame, then it’s important that you try and talk to him or her about it.
You can try and convince them that there is more to the concept of twin flames than meets the eye.
This might not work, but if it does, then you’ll know for sure that you’re meant to be.
However, if it doesn’t work, you should not keep pushing it.
Imagine someone trying to convince you that the Earth was flat and you just can’t believe it, no matter how much you want to.
At some point, it’ll just be repulsive, right?
So give your twin flame some space and try being in their life without perpetuating the idea of twin flames constantly!
But giving them space can be hard, especially when you’re not sure where you stand with them.
That’s why I recommend getting a personalized reading by one of the gifted advisors over at Psychic Source.
I mentioned them earlier.
They’ve been a great source of comfort and guidance when I’ve faced issues in my love life, and their specialist advisers are well trained in the area of twin flames.
So, what are you waiting for?
From giving you clarity on the situation to supporting you as you make life-changing decisions, these advisors will empower you to make decisions about your love life with confidence.
7) He/She has bad habits that make me unhappy
Another sign that you and your twin flame are meeting at the wrong time is when they have bad habits that make you unhappy.
Is your partner a smoker? Are they constantly late for plans? Are they abusing substances?
These bad habits may not seem as important at first, but if you’re feeling unhappy about them, then it might just be time to break up.
Remember that just because someone has a negative habit, doesn’t necessarily mean they are a terrible person overall.
You should still give them a chance before deciding anything drastic like breaking up with them.
Once you’ve figured out why the habits bother you (whether it be due to finances or other issues), there are ways to work through them together.
If your partner is a smoker and they make an effort to quit smoking with you, then it may not always be the right time to break up with them.
One thing that’s important to remember is that you shouldn’t try to change someone.
They are their own person and if what they do is making them happy, you shouldn’t force them to change.
And trust me, some people will never break their habits, so before you try to change them for months before giving up, save your energy and let them decide for themselves.
8) One twin flame is married
One of the most common signs that you’re meeting your twin flame at the wrong time is if they’re already married.
It might seem as if you’re meeting them at just the right time, but believe me, it’s not.
If they are married, and they want to end their marriage to be with you, then that might be a different story.
But for the most part, people who are married aren’t looking for anything more than an affair.
If this is the case, then don’t try to pursue things.
Let them know how you feel and let them go on with their life without any pressure from you.
If they do decide to leave their spouse for you, that’s of course something to think about, but oftentimes, they love their spouses and won’t pursue anything with you.
And to be honest? You shouldn’t push it.
If you know that someone is married and you deliberately try to break up their marriage to be with them, that’s not a noble thing to do.
Instead, settle for being just friends or come to terms with the idea that maybe you’re not meant to be together in this lifetime.
9) One twin flame has children
One of the most obvious signs that you might be meeting your twin flame at the wrong time is if they have children.
Be cautious in this case because the chances of them leaving their children for you are small and you should ask yourself if you even want to be “that person”.
It’s best to keep things as friends for now and explore your feelings for one another on a deeper level when there’s no risk of hurting any children’s feelings.
If you decide to end things, do it kindly and with an open heart so that they can continue being present in your life, but not as a romantic partner.
Sometimes, you have to be a friend and let go of the idea that you might one day be with them.
10) You live far apart
Last but not least, you might be meeting your twin flame at the wrong time when you live really far apart.
It’s not uncommon for people to meet their twin flame in faraway places, but it can be a sign that you’re not meant to be together.
You might want to think about this carefully because if your twin flame lives far away from you, and there’s no way for you to see each other, that can be hard.
In my own experience, long-distance relationships can work, but they are incredibly hard.
The most important factor to make a relationship work over a distance? Having an end date for when you will finally live together.
If that’s not possible due to geopolitical or career reasons, you might be better off not being together, for now, trust me.
Long-distance can be the most heart-breaking experience if both partners are not all in.
What does that mean for you?
You see, there are many reasons why you might be meeting your twin flame at the wrong time.
The thing is, almost every single one of these situations has a solution to make things work, but it always takes two for that.
Think about it: if there is a problem and only one person is ready to commit and find a solution, that can’t end in a good way.
Relationships are supposed to be a two-way street. You give some and you receive some.
When that balance is out of whack, it’s important to take a step back and think about the situation and see where you’re at.
If you’re not sure, it’s better to stop seeing each other, at least for now.
It’s a sign of self-respect, and you owe yourself at least that!
If you do decide to be with your twin flame, make sure it’s at the right time of your life and that you have thought everything through before making any decisions.
Twin flame relationships are challenging and triggering, so make sure that there is a solid foundation for you two before you pursue things any further.
Hopefully, you should now have a good idea of when you meet your twin flame at the wrong time.
But if you’d still like to get more clarity on the situation, speaking to a gifted advisor is the best way to go.
I mentioned Psychic Source earlier. Based on my own personal experience with them, I know they’re the real deal. Their advisors are kind and genuinely helpful.
So, if you really want to get to the bottom of whether you’ve met at the wrong time, get in touch with an advisor and take your future into your own hands. I did, and it changed my life.