Is my twin flame relationship over? 10 signs to look for and what to do about it

Your twin flame relationship is probably one of the most influential relationships of your life.

That makes it even harder to know when it is time to let go of one another.

While a lot of twin flames will reunite again and again throughout different lifetimes, almost no couple stays together until they both die.

So, if you are feeling like your relationship is falling apart, you are not alone.

To help you understand if your relationship is truly over and if there is anything you can do about it, here are 10 signs you can look for:

1) You don’t feel connected to them anymore

Twin flame relationships are all about connection.

So, if you are feeling like you are losing your connection to one another, this is a very clear sign that your relationship is nearing an end.

You see, when you are in love with your twin flame, everything feels amazing. You can feel their emotions and sometimes even hear their thoughts.

So, if you are feeling like this connection is slipping away, it is definitely time to re-evaluate your relationship.

It’s not a positive sign when you suddenly feel so distanced from one another that this connection feels severed.

If you two are still officially in a relationship, you can try to re-establish that connection by being truly present with one another and talking about your feelings and emotions.

However, if takes two to tango, so if your twin flame isn’t interested in re-establishing that connection, it is probably time to let go.

2) They stopped showing up in your dreams

Similar to being connected in real-life, your twin flame will also show up in your dreams throughout your relationship.

A lot of twin flame couples even report that they can communicate with one another through dreams.

So, if your twin flame has stopped showing up in your dreams, this is a clear sign that your relationship is falling apart.

In fact, it is a pretty good indication that you two are not on the same page anymore.

Just like I mentioned earlier, all you can really do is to try and deepen the connection between you again.

Think about it: what led to you being distanced from your twin flame?

And, what can you do to prevent it from happening again in the future?

If it is something you can change, then go ahead and do it!

However, there is only so much you can do by yourself.

You can hope that your actions will influence your twin flame in a positive way, but if they have decided that they want to end the relationship, then it is probably not going to be enough.

3) The synchronicities have stopped

During a twin flame relationship, you will notice a lot of synchronicities.

For example, you might notice that your couple song keeps playing on the radio, or that your favorite movie that you watched on your first date is on TV when you think about them.

These synchronicities can be very helpful in re-establishing and maintaining the connection between you and your twin flame.

It’s like the universe is reassuring you that you are indeed connected.

So if you suddenly stop seeing these signs, then it is a clear sign that your twin flame is moving on.

It might not be the end of the relationship yet, but it definitely means that there is something to watch out for.

If the synchronicities have stopped showing up or if they are not nearly as strong as they used to be, this is a pretty clear sign that your relationship is not in the best place.

You can try communicating with your twin flame and talking through issues.

4) You can feel a deep loss

Now that you’ve noticed the first 3 points, it is not uncommon to get a feeling of deep loss.

This is a sign that you are beginning to accept the reality of what is happening.

It is not a good feeling, but it is important that you don’t ignore it.

You can use this feeling to help you understand what’s going on in your relationship, and why you and your twin flame have drifted apart.

When we talk about twin flames, we often talk about the fact that they are like mirrors for us.

They reflect our deepest wounds and fears, and they push us to confront them in order to evolve as individuals.

This process can be hard, but it is also an opportunity for personal growth.

Feeling a deep sense of loss can remind you of how much your twin flame means to you, and you can use that as fuel to keep fighting for the relationship.

5) You feel lost

On a similar note, when your twin flame relationship falls apart, you might notice that you feel lost.

Suddenly, nothing you do makes sense anymore, and you feel like you are lost in the world.

This is a sign that you need to take some time off and do something that makes you feel good.

Go out with your friends or family, go on a vacation, or just spend a day doing whatever brings you joy.

It’s important that you have some time to yourself at this point to figure out what you need and want.

You see, you and your twin flame attracted each other because you were fully embodying yourselves.

Now that you feel lost, that can even push your twin flame further away.

Your best bet at saving the relationship (but also feeling better about yourself) is to take time and really rediscover who you are.

What makes you feel passionate? What are your life goals? What do you want to do with your life?

When you have figured that out, it is easier to move forward with your twin flame.

And if worst came to worst, at least you’ll know who you are, with or without your twin flame!

6) Your twin flame chose someone else

This next point will hurt, but it’s the truth.

One of the signs that your relationship is over is when your twin flame chooses someone else.

When you realize that your twin flame is moving on, it can be hard to accept.

You might feel jealous or insecure, and those feelings might make you want to cling on to your twin flame in order to win him or her back.

Please don’t do that!

The last thing your twin flame needs right now is more clinginess.

And if he or she has chosen someone else, it’s because the relationship was not meant to be.

If you are serious about saving the relationship, then please take this as a sign that you need to make some changes.

It’s not too late! You just need a little bit of self-love and self-care before trying again!

Being clingy at this point will only push them further away. Your best bet is to just focus on yourself and hope that they will figure out sooner rather than later that you are better for them.

Trust me, if they don’t want to be with you, you’re not doing yourself a favor by clinging on to them.

7) You found your soulmate

On the same note, your twin flame relationship might be over when you find your soulmate.

Your soulmate is someone who is your perfect match and who makes you feel complete.

When you feel like you have finally found your soulmate, it’s easy to stop looking for other people, especially if the relationship with your twin flame was not going well.

This can lead to a situation where you are still connected to your twin flame, but you are torn between them and your soulmate.

The thing is, at this point, there is probably not much you can do to save your twin flame relationship.

If it is meant to be, you will find your way back to one another.

But if it’s not meant to be, then you should accept that and move on.

Soulmates are the kinds of partners you will have for life. Twin flames are often there to teach you a lesson and then you will reunite with them in another life.

You will always be connected to your twin flame, but don’t let that relationship stand in the way of you and your soulmate.

8) You can picture a future without them

Okay, this next sign kind of connects to the one before, but there doesn’t necessarily need to be a new partner involved.

You see, a big sign that your twin flame relationship is over is when you can picture a future for yourself without them.

If you can see yourself with someone else, or just not with anyone, then that is a pretty big sign that your twin flame relationship is over.

That’s not to say that you should rush into another relationship right away.

But if you can imagine a future without your twin flame, then it’s time to let go of them and move on.

You see, this is the case for any relationship, really. Once you start thinking about a future without them in the picture (and you like that thought), something is wrong.

The last thing you can do to save your relationship is to actually identify why you would prefer a future without them.

What changed your mind, and is it something that can be worked on?

If you really don’t think there is a future with this person, then it’s time to let go and move on.

9) Your twin flame doesn’t believe in twin flames

This next point is a bit tricky. A lot of twin flame relationships end because one of the two people involved doesn’t believe in twin flames.

It’s not that they don’t believe that they have a twin flame, it’s that they don’t believe in the concept of a twin flame.

If you have been together with your twin flame for any amount of time, then you probably have some idea of what their beliefs are.

Are they spiritual? Are they into new age stuff? That can all factor into whether or not they believe in the concept of a twin flame.

If your partner doesn’t really believe in the idea of a twin flame, then there is going to be an issue later on down the road. Plus, they might be freaked out by the fact that you believe in it.

The thing is, if you don’t really believe in something, then it’s hard to really change your mind and accept it.

Especially in a relationship that is so heavily based on mutual connection and spirituality like twin flames, it’s important to have a similar outlook.

If your partner doesn’t believe in twin flames and judges you for it, then it’s time to let go of them.

Further down the road, this will only make you unhappy.

10) You feel like you can move on

Last but not least, it’s a big sign that your relationship is over when you have the feeling that you can move on.

You see, twin flames are usually VERY attached to one another.

So much so, that the mere thought of moving on will hurt beyond belief. It’s a painful thought that will make you want to cry and scream.

So, if you are actually feeling like you can move on, then it’s time to let go of your twin flame.

It’s not the right one for you. It might have been at one point in time, but if it feels like you can move on now, then there is no point in holding onto them.

Letting go of them might be hard (especially if you had a long relationship), but it’s worth it.

Why do twin flame relationships fall apart?

Now, you might be wondering how you even got to this point in the first place.

There is a lot of stuff going on in the background that you might not even be aware of.

You might feel like your twin flame relationship is over, but it’s actually something else that ended it for you. Here are the top 3 reasons why your twin flame relationship fell apart:

1) You became distant from them (or they from you)

This is one of the most common causes for twin flame relationships to fall apart.

It can happen so gradually that neither person really realizes how far apart they have become until they are what feels like miles and miles away from each other.

It usually happens when one person starts to get comfortable with their situation, stops growing, and doesn’t realize how much they have changed until it’s too late.

This is when a twin flame relationship ends because one person has changed too much and the other person becomes uninterested in them, simply because they don’t feel like they know them anymore.

2) You started to feel suffocated by them (or vice versa)

If you think about it, this makes sense as well since both people involved in a twin flame relationship are highly sensitive people who need a lot of space for themselves and their own thoughts and feelings.

If one person starts feeling suffocated by their partner, then the natural reaction will be to push away from them instead of trying to work through things together.

This can happen if someone gets overly possessive or jealous over their partner or if someone just doesn’t feel like they have any space for themselves anymore.

3) You started to feel like they didn’t need you anymore (or vice versa)

This is another common reason for why twin flame relationships end.

It’s usually because one person has reached a point in their life where they don’t feel like they need their twin flame anymore, so they simply stop needing them and start moving on with their lives.

This can be hard for the other person to deal with, especially if they are used to being needed by their partner at all times.

However, twin flames are there to help each other learn an important lesson, and when that lesson is learned, your need for one another kind of dissipates!

Can you move on?

Now that you know all the signs of your twin flame relationship being over as well as why it might have happened, you need to ask yourself if you are ready to move on.

You see, it can be difficult to move on from a twin flame relationship because you know that there is always the possibility of them coming back into your life again at some point in time.

However, if you feel like that would be the healthiest choice for yourself and them at this point, you should probably go for it, even if it’s hard!

If they are meant to be in your life, they will find a way back into it, that’s for sure!