How to forgive your twin flame for cheating (complete guide)

If you’ve ever been betrayed by your twin flame, you know it can be difficult to forgive them. 

It doesn’t matter what reason they had for cheating, the pain is about the same. 

The time will come when you will have to decide whether to move on with or without them and it can be a difficult situation to navigate.

This article takes a deep look at how you can forgive your twin flame for cheating and everything you need to know.

Let’s dive in.

What is a twin flame?

A twin flame is a person that was designed with you in mind. It’s someone that you have known since the beginning of time and have been waiting for to come back into your life so that you could complete each other. 

Twin flames can feel an instant connection with one another; and it feels as if they know everything about each other when they meet, even though they’ve never met before. 

This is because they are soul mates; two halves of one whole. They are complete when they are together; whole.

How do I forgive my twin flame for cheating?

If your twin flame cheats on you, the most important thing to do is to ask yourself why they did it. 

It’s crucial that you are honest with yourself because this will determine whether you can forgive them; and if so, how long it will take to move on from their betrayal. 

If they cheated because they were unhappy in the relationship and/or felt a lack of intimacy, then it’s important to work with them so that you can reconnect romantically and intimately.

Here are a few things to keep in mind.

1) Forgive but don’t forget.

If your twin flame cheated on you and they feel terrible about it, then forgive them; but don’t forget what they did. 

It is important to be aware of their actions so that another cheater never enters your life again.

Here’s the thing.

Forgiveness is twice as important when a person has wronged you.

Forgiving a twin flame “right away” is completely understandable; but if he or she constantly hurts you, forgive them once more – this time through the heart. 

This means that you forgive them, but then immediately release the negative energy associated with the event. You can do this by visualizing a golden light entering your heart and creating a warm white glow inside of it. 

By releasing the negative emotions, you allow yourself to move forward emotionally (and possibly physically) with your twin flame in order to create a better and healthier relationship with one another.

2) Don’t let your ego get in the way.

If your twin flame cheats on you and you decide to forgive them, don’t do it because you feel sorry for them. 

Don’t do it simply because you think that they deserve a second chance. 

Do it because you know that you deserve a second chance as well, and if they can’t give it to you romantically/sexually then there is no reason for both of you to suffer needlessly.

3) Get help from a gifted advisor.

The points we cover in this article will give you a good idea of why twin flames cheat and how to forgive them.

But since your situation is unique to you, the best thing you can do is get tailored advice.

That’s why we recommend getting a personalized psychic reading to really address the issues you’re facing.

The key, however, is finding someone trustworthy to speak to.

After a really challenging time in my love life, I found that speaking to an advisor from Psychic Source gave me the strength and motivation to get my life back on track.

The advisor I spoke to was kind, understanding of my situation, and genuinely helpful.

My love reading shed light on my situation in a way I wasn’t able to see on my own, and I was finally able to clear my head and heal my heart. 

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Not only can a gifted advisor tell you whether forgiving your twin flame is the right thing to do,but they can reveal all your future love possibilities. 

4) Ask yourself if you’re willing to let go.

If you have decided that your twin flame will not be in your life anymore, then decide if you are willing to move forward with him/her for the rest of your life. 

If the answer is no, then cross that person completely out of your life and never look back. 

Remember, twin flames work in mysterious ways and there is a reason why he/she has been in your life – even if you can’t quite figure it out now. 

By letting go of the negative feeling that you have towards your twin flame, you open up space in your life for new relationships with people who are meant to be in it.

5) Forgive and move on with your life.

If you have decided that the relationship can still be salvaged, then forgive your partner. 

If the cheating was an isolated incident and the two of you had a great relationship prior to it happening, forgiveness may be easier to come by. 

If you still have unresolved issues with your partner, it is important to work through them; but be sure that you are ready to forgive and move on with your life.

6) Meditate.

If your twin flame cheats on you, then mediate to allow yourself to release the negative emotions associated with the event. 

If you have taken steps towards forgiving him/her, then meditate on a new positive attitude towards your twin flame. 

Open up your heart, your mind, and your body for love and connection. Ask for help from the universe to keep you safe and ensure that the catfishing doesn’t continue in the future. With time, you will heal emotionally, physically and spiritually.

7) Be honest with yourself.

If you have decided that you cannot forgive him/her anymore, it’s important to be honest with yourself about why this is the case. 

If you cheat on someone and you then decide that the relationship can still be salvaged, make sure that you are honest with yourself about this.

Are there underlying issues within your relationship? If so, it’s important to resolve them before moving forward.

8) Be wary of false twins.

If your twin flame cheats on you, then keep an open mind.

It’s not uncommon for false twin flames to cross our paths and chances are, your partner has cheated because they were in fact a false twin.

Don’t be angry or bitter about the situation for too long; rather, be hopeful. 

This is because your twin flame is still out there and you will end up bumping into them at some point in the future.

If you are a twin flame couple, then chances are that you have met each other before on this or another incarnation. 

This could be a friend, family, classmate, or even someone you work with. Your twin flame could be literally anyone – but today I’m going to focus on people that you work with.

Recognize that when it comes down to it, your twin flame is going to cheat on you for a number of different reasons. The most plausible is that they might not even be your true twin flame.

That’s why I recommend getting a personalized reading from one of the gifted advisors over at Psychic Source. 

I mentioned them earlier.

They’ve been a great source of comfort and guidance when I’ve faced issues in my love life, and their specialist advisers are well trained in the area of twin flame relationships.

So, what are you waiting for?

From giving you clarity on the situation to supporting you as you make life-changing decisions, these advisors will empower you to make decisions about your love life with confidence.

Click here to get your personalized love reading. 

How does the twin flame relationship work?

Twin flames find each other through the Universal consciousness and form a relationship with one another. 

It’s sort of like being given a mission to complete that is designed to improve the life of each person. 

When two twins meet, they are both given tasks/challenges that they must complete in order to fully realize their inner potential or true self. When both twins accomplish this, then they are complete. 

They have taught each other about themselves and how to be better individuals through the process of their relationship.

When two twins get together for the first time, their relationship can look and feel like any other romantic relationship. 

They may be madly in love with one another, or they may feel an immediate attraction to one another that consumes them completely. 

However, the difference between twin flames and other couples is that twin flames have a “soul bond” with each other. 

This means that they are meant to be together forever. 

No matter what happens, when they are around one another, they feel a sense of belonging that they don’t feel with other people.

When an issue arises in their relationship, it can be hard to discover whether it is a problem between the two of them or if it stems from their mission. 

If a twin flame couple becomes argumentative with each other, the reason for their fighting may be the lack of intimacy in their relationship.

They may not feel close enough to one another and that is causing an issue. On the other hand, it could be that there is a third party involved, and they are arguing because they are jealous of the person their twin flame is spending time with or developing feelings for.

If your twin flame cheats on you, it’s important to understand why.

Why do twin flames cheat?

There are many reasons for why a twin flame cheats, and the reason is different for every couple. However, there are a few common causes that many couples experience:

1) The person’s ego or desire to have someone else. 

The most common reason for cheating is the ego or need of an individual to feel powerful in his or her relationship. 

When one twin is more attracted to some aspect of their partner than the other, they may search for that aspect in other people. 

The individual’s ego may feel threatened by their twin flame, and the twin flame begins to look for someone else who can give them what they crave.

2) The twin flame is no longer getting the intimate connection that they want from their partner. 

Thanks to the soul bond, it becomes very difficult for a twin flame to cheat on their partner. 

This is because they have such an intimate connection with that person and would be aware of it even if they were cheating on them. 

The twin flame will feel a strong pull toward their partner, and if they are not getting the love and intimacy that they crave, then they may search for it elsewhere.

3) The person’s preconceived ideas about their love life. 

People have differing opinions about who should be in the role of “giver” or “taker” in relationships. It’s crucial to understand that one person isn’t better than the other in any way, shape, or form. 

It is important to discern whether your twin flame’s cheating stems from his or her idea of what the gender roles should be in the relationship. 

Is your twin flame thinking that you shouldn’t be receiving so much from them, or are they thinking that you should be giving back more?

Love can be so full of disappointment and deception. 

Experiences like forgiving your twin flame for cheating are enough to make you give up on love for good. 

I want to suggest that you hang on for just a moment longer. 

In fact, I want to suggest a solution. 

And the good news is that you have all the tools you need to do this right now, right where you are. 

I learnt about this from the modern-day Brazilian shaman Rudá Iandê. He taught me how the lies we tell ourselves about love are part of what trap us in things like twin flame infidelity.

As Rudá explains in this transformational free video, love is available to us if we cut through the lies that we tell ourselves. 

We need to face the facts about infidelity and love. 

The alternative is to end up in loveless relationships or endless dating frustration that only leaves us cold and empty. 

The alternative is to be sunk in stagnant codependency and completely unable to resolve things like moving on from betrayal.

Rudá’s teachings showed me a whole new perspective. 

While watching, I felt like someone understood my struggles to find love for the first time – and finally offered an actual, practical solution to forgiveness.

If you’re done with wasting your time on love that doesn’t work, I invite you to watch this short video and open your mind to new possibilities to guide you on the path to finding true love and intimacy. 

Click here to watch the free video.

4) Twin flames can develop fantasies and/or fetishes that their partner does not approve of. 

This could be an idea that has been planted in your partner’s mind over time – or it could be something that he or she came up with on their own. 

Twin flame couples can have very different tastes in sexual partners, so if one twin wants to be dominated by a particular person, but the other twin is more submissive, they may end up having arguments over it. 

In the heat of the moment when they are angry (or guilty after), such fantasies may consume them and lead to cheating on their partner.

Is it possible to move on after cheating?

I think that every relationship experiences a period of time where both partners feel as though they can’t move forward. 

Most infidelity occurs during a period of great change or transition, for example entering an exciting new relationship, starting a company, or having your first baby. In the aftermath of infidelity, individuals feel betrayed and left behind by their partners.

We’re all human and we all make mistakes, the question you need to ask is whether or not you are prepared to give it another go and whether or not you will be able to trust your twin again.

The answer to that question needs to be one made with honesty and clarity.

Do’s and don’t of forgiving a cheating twin flame

Do forgive your twin flame. This is the first step to moving on and focusing on the future.

If you decide to forgive your twin flame, then try not to dwell on it. Do not go back into this space of pain and psychological devastation.

Do be honest with yourself and other people in your life about why you need space from your twin flame or why you feel as though you cannot be friends anymore.

Don’t ignore the signs that your twin flame is cheating. These can be small or big – but if you see them, then handle them appropriately.

Do lose hope and get angry at your twin flame for hitting you with the news of their infidelity. If you break down in front of people, then you may end up losing all hope and feeling depressed and sad.

Do not avoid your twin flame because you are afraid to hurt them again by forgiving them too quickly.

Don’t mistake lack of contact for forgiveness. Just because your twin flame hasn’t contacted you in a while, doesn’t mean that they have moved on or forgiven you.

If you decide that you cannot forgive your twin flame, then take time to remember why this happened. If your twin flame cheats on you and they are continuously trying to be there for you in the aftermath of this, this may be a good sign.

Do all twin flames cheat on their partners?

I don’t think that all twin flames cheat on their partners and I would be really surprised if 20% of twin flames cheated. 

The biggest reason why twin flames cheat is that they have grown up in a time when it’s normal for couples to experience infidelity. Humans have always been able to move on after experiencing infidelity.

Cheating is therefore a natural thing and it’s not something that always destroys a relationship.

If you are cheating on your partner, then try to remember that it’s not always the end of the world. 

Just because your twin flame has cheated on you doesn’t mean that you can’t move forward and make an effort in saving your relationship later down the track.

Wrapping up

Hopefully, you should now have a good idea of what forgiving a cheating twin flame entails. But if you’d still like to get more clarity on the situation, speaking to a gifted advisor is the best way to go. 

I mentioned Psychic Source earlier. Based on my own personal experience with them, I know they’re the real deal. Their advisors are kind and genuinely helpful.

So, if you really want to get to the bottom of why you’re finding it hard to forgive your cheating twin flame, get in touch with an advisor and take your future into your own hands. I did, and it changed my life.

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