There are many twin flame tests that people can discover whether they have found their other half or not.
But it can be a special experience if one of you is a heyoka empath.
It can make the whole encounter even more potent and difficult to navigate because everything will feel more intense and the boundary between you both will feel thin.
Read on to find out if your twin flame might be a heyoka empath, if it’s you, and what you need to know if you as you move forward in your relationship.
Let’s jump right in.
3 things you need to know about dating a heyoka empath
1) Heyoka empaths do not drain your energy
Unlike empaths, particularly if they are combined with a twin, heyoka empaths are not prone to draining energy from other people.
They are very sensitive and attuned to all that is happening around them.
These individuals know how and when to offer themselves in need and the effect is one of self-healing for both people involved.
As an empath, you grow up learning that the world around you needs help and that it is your job to help them. Whether this is you or your twin flame, you will find that your relationship will be much deeper and stronger than anything else that you have experienced before.
As a twin flame, you can help by providing your energy for the healing of your twin soul as they help others.
2) Heyoka empaths and twin flames BEWARE!
Remember that you are meeting each other to push each other to learn and reach new capacities. This is not going to be an easy journey by any means.
As you move forward in your relationship with your twin flame you will notice that they or you start to act differently.
They might appear to be more sensitive, more open, and yes needier than you are, or vice versa.
It is a normal part of being single – being in need and not having someone to turn to for the things that matter, but when twin flames can challenge the other to radically shift.
This is when you need to be aware that your twin flame is not another person to fix, but a person to help support you in fixing yourself.
I call this falling in love with the idea of healing as opposed to falling in love with the actual healing.
The best way to ensure that this does not happen is for you and your twin flame to agree upon some kind of boundaries that neither one of you can cross when it comes down to who will be doing the helping in your relationship.
3) You will have your twin flame for life
You will be a twin flame for life, and the challenge that you both have is to understand who you are as individuals because, to create new lives together, trust and understanding need to happen.
Understanding that your needs as an individual are just as valid as the ones of your twin, that they are not all yours alone.
They should count equally in your life together (the benefits one has with the other).
The points we cover in this article will give you a good idea of the unique things you need to consider when a heyoka empath is in a twin flame relationship.
This is a very rare and exceptional combination. So take care, for both of your sakes.
Since this is such a unique encounter and something that will profoundly impact your life, I would like to recommend that you get a personalized reading to address any fears or hesitations that you are facing.
After a challenging time in my love life, when I thought I met my twin flame, I found that speaking to an advisor from Psychic Source gave me the strength and motivation to get my life back on track. I was a complete mess and felt utterly scattered and confused during our tumultuous interactions.
The advisor I spoke to was kind, understanding of my situation, and genuinely helpful to all my concerns.
My love of reading shed light on my situation in a way I wasn’t able to see on my own, and I was finally able to clear my head and heal my heart.
Not only can a gifted advisor tell you whether you are dealing with your twin flame and confirm if one of you is a heyoka empath, but they can reveal all your future love possibilities and challenges ahead.
What does it feel like to be in a relationship with a heyoka empath?
Because empaths deeply feel the experience of another person, it’s important to understand what it feels like to be in a relationship with a heyoka empath. This is experience is very intense and unique. You might experience some of the following:
- You feel as if your life has been upended
- Feelings of intense pressure, being pulled in too many directions at once
- You start to doubt your feelings and attraction to your twin flame, or you start doubting the attraction between you two
- You can feel their emotions around you – how they are feeling, the ideas they are having, the feeling that comes from what they are experiencing
- You will have a powerful sense of merging and merging with your twin
- You will have feelings of not belonging to this world any more
- Your emotions can feel so intense that they flood your body. This is especially true if your partner has strong empath abilities or a strong connection to nature.
Because of the intense and immediate bond that you have with your twin flame, it can be hard to tell if you are the heyoka empath or if it’s your partner.
The line between you can feel thin, even when you are physically apart or distant from one another.
Emotions and sensations will feel common and heightened in a way like you’ve never had with someone else.
A heyoka empath may feel as if you are in their body, thoughts, feelings, or emotions (yes, this is normal).
Once you have a better understanding of how it feels to be a heyoka empath, you can start to distinguish if it’s more you or your partner who is that person. It can be hard to know who is who.
And that can help to give you better clarity and less confusion about what you are experiencing and what you are responding to.
As you move forward in your relationship, remember that it will feel like a roller coaster. You might have intense moments together, and then a long period of separation, followed by a reunion.
Some tips while you are together:
1) Set firm boundaries
Your twin flame is going to be a mirror for you, and that can be intense.
The two of you can feel as if your emotions are all over the place.
That is why it’s important to cultivate self-respect and to have a pretty firm understanding of what you need and who you are.
You may feel pulled in a million different directions at once – your work, your family and friends, your partner – but that is where clarity comes in.
2) Have open and honest conversations
Talking about what you are feeling is an exercise in self-respect.
You are responsible for your feelings, and your twin flame wants to support your path.
In a relationship with a heyoka empath, it’s also important to talk about the things that bother you and make sure that you feel at ease with them.
When one or both of you act from a place of defensiveness or create walls between each other, it’s challenging for the other to see him or herself. And that can be a problem because you want your twin flame to see yourself. You want them to know who you are.
That’s why it’s of the utmost importance to have conversations with your twin.
Ask lots of questions and make sure that you have healthy boundaries in place.
3) Don’t be afraid to take a break from one another
If things are getting intense, draw a line and take a break from one another. This is a natural part of the twin flame journey.
Thank them for sharing with you, and tell them you will be back soon in some form or another.
You don’t have to be side by side to impact one another. You need some space to process the lessons you are learning and take time to grow as an individual.
The peace of mind that comes from taking time for yourself is necessary, even if it feels difficult. The more you can do that in the beginning, the easier it will be to move forward.
4) Tune into your triggers
If you start to doubt your feelings, ask yourself what triggered that? It’s good to tune in and take the time to see what they might be saying or doing to push your buttons.
No one will impact you more than your twin flame, so it’s a great learning experience.
Take a moment and ask yourself the following questions:
- Are your feelings tied to where you are at in life?
- Are they tied to fear or worry you have about your partner?
- Are they tied to something specific that happened that day or week?
If you find yourself asking any of those questions, then ask yourself what triggered those thoughts. And start to dive deeper into your journey of personal inquiry.
5) Create harmony in your life so that you aren’t always getting mixed messages
There will be times when your twin flame will want to help you or support you, or just want to spend time with you talking about what they want to do next in their life.
So it’s important to make sure that you feel strong and secure with yourself.
That way, when they are asking you to support their choices or decisions it doesn’t feel like a demand, even if it is.
Remember that you are in your power and that this is your path. Meeting your twin flame is something that is part of your destiny, and something that you can always opt into or out of.
That’s why I recommend getting a personalized reading by one of the gifted advisors over at Psychic Source. I mentioned them earlier.
They’ve been a great source of comfort and guidance when I’ve faced issues in my love life, and their specialist advisers are well trained in the area of twin flame relationships.
So, what are you waiting for?
From giving you clarity on the situation to supporting you as you make life-changing decisions, these advisors will empower you to make decisions about your love life with confidence.
6) Be patient
Your twin flame is a mirror for you, and that means that they might be acting differently than the way you are expecting them to.
If they like to be more social or talkative, they might need you to push back on that a little bit.
Or if they feel a little bit more sensitive or needy, it’s not because of anything wrong with them, but because it’s a way for them to be seen or heard by others.
You can help by seeing how you are different and embracing those differences.
And if one of you is a heyoka empath, you are going to be even more attuned to these sensations and feelings.
7) Stay in the present moment and give one another your undivided attention
The more you can stay present with your feelings and create harmony in your life, the more steadfast you will be when you are together.
It is all too easy to overthink situations and to turn our attention away from them instead of facing them head-on.
Sometimes we can really be afraid of being in the present moment with our twin flame because the experience can feel so overwhelming and strong. But the more you can embrace it and face it, the more you will learn and grow.
And even if you feel like a roller coaster ride is taking place, remember that there is a lot of excitement and potential for magic around.
That doesn’t mean that it’s easy. It means that it’s going to be different, but also exciting. Let life pass through you. Don’t try to control or manipulate it, but try to learn from it instead.
Keep learning and growing
Even though it can feel overwhelming when you are relating to your twin flame, remember that every relationship has the chance to show us more about ourselves and about how we love.
Each person will touch our hearts in a different way and it’s important to stay open and honest about the experience of life.
If you feel anxious about your twin flame and how sensitive you or your flame may be, it might be a sign that you need some help and guidance through this interaction.
Why not reach out to someone who is experienced in giving advice in this field?
We can all use someone to talk to and check-in with. And sometimes our friends and family might not understand what it means to be an empath. Or what it’s like to find your twin flame.
If you want to maximize your growth and learning in this unique encounter, there are lots of counselors and coaches, and resources to reach out to.
If you are certain that your twin flame has crossed your path and you want to know more about the situation, speaking to an advisor who has experience in this field can either give you ideas that you agree with and follow, or things to consider that you might not have thought of otherwise.
What you do afterward is always your choice. But there are few people who you might encounter who will be able to navigate these sorts of conversations with you.
I mentioned Psychic Source earlier. Based on my own experience with them, I found that they gave me some new insights to consider.
So, if you want to get to the bottom of why you feel confused and overwhelmed in this intense relationship, get in touch with an advisor and learn how to take your future into your own hands.
Using all the resources you have at hand can only give you more choice and confidence to act as you seem fit.
With time and inquiry and understanding this period of frustration and anxiety will soon pass.