False twin flame relationships can be the most challenging and painful part of your spiritual journey.
You think you meet your twin flame, fall head over heels in love, and begin an incredible relationship that feels like it will last forever.
Then, one day, seemingly out of the blue, everything falls apart. Your partner breaks up with you and tells you that you’re not the one for them.
If your twin flame turns out to be your false twin flame, there are 12 ways to prevent them from hurting your feelings.
1) Recognize the signs that someone is not your twin flame
The first and most important step you can take to prevent a false twin flame from hurting you is to recognize the signs that someone is not your twin flame.
When you’re involved in a false twin flame relationship, it can be easy to get caught up in the fantasy and ignore the red flags that are right in front of your face.
If you think that this person is your false twin flame, you should probably have figured out some signs that this person is not your twin flame.
If you are unsure, here are some signs that someone is not your twin flame:
- They don’t honor and respect you.
They might be kind to you, but they do not seem to value your needs or the things you care about. They might use and manipulate you for their own selfish purposes.
- They don’t have a spiritual connection with you.
Your twin flame will know exactly what you are going through, and they will have a profound spiritual connection with you that goes beyond words. They will support and encourage your spiritual growth, and they will help you to awaken spiritually in ways that no one else can.
- Your twin flame will never hurt or betray you.
If this person hurts or betrays you, even once (and especially if it happens repeatedly), then they can not be your twin flame.
Your twin flame will never hurt or betray you because that would be going against their very nature as an ascended master who has dedicated their lives to helping others heal and awaken spiritually.
Do any of these sound familiar to you?
This may seem like an obvious step, but it’s amazing how many people ignore the obvious signs that someone is not their twin flame.
The most common sign that someone is not your twin flame is if they tell you directly. They will say in some way – either in words or through their actions and behavior – that they are not for you and that your relationship will not last.
If this happens, listen to them! Don’t ignore what they are saying. Don’t pretend it doesn’t matter what they say or do, even if you don’t want to believe them or if their words make you uncomfortable.
Their words are true and they mean exactly what they say!
So, try your best to recognize the signs that someone is not your twin flame.
Listen to their message, identify your feelings, and heed it when they tell you something like this; otherwise, you may end up suffering unnecessarily.
2) Be clear on your relationship intentions
Have you already decided that you want a committed, long-term relationship?
If so, then you need to be clear about that.
- If you have not yet decided this for yourself, then what are your intentions with this person?
- What do you want from them and from the relationship?
- Do they know your intentions or have you told them what you want?
If not, then it is important that you take some time and be clear on exactly what your intentions are. Be sure to communicate these to the other person as well.
Let me explain why.
When you meet your twin flame, it can be easy to fall into the fantasy of thinking that you’ve “found your soulmate” and that you are going to be together for the rest of your life.
This is not the best mindset to be in when dealing with a false twin flame situation. Instead, you want to be clear on what your intentions are from the get-go.
This will help you to see the relationship for what it is, rather than what you want it to be.
But what if you’re clear on your intentions?
In this case, you’ll be less likely to get your heart broken when you meet your false twin flame.
Keep in mind that there are many different kinds of relationships.
Some people will be looking for casual dating or hook-up relationships. Others may be looking for a friendship or family bond type of relationship.
Still, others will be looking for a committed relationship like marriage or cohabitation.
But if you realize that your twin flame is a false twin flame and their intentions are different from yours, then they may hurt your feelings very badly.
That’s why it’s important to know what kind of relationship you want with this person so that both of you can be clear about your expectations and intentions for the future.
3) Get advice from a real psychic
The points we cover in this article will give you a good idea of how to prevent your false twin flame from hurting you.
But since your situation is unique to you, the best thing you can do is get tailored advice.
That’s why we recommend getting a personalized psychic reading to really address the issues you’re facing.
The key, however, is finding someone trustworthy to speak to.
After a really challenging time in my love life, I found that speaking to an advisor from Psychic Source gave me the strength and motivation to get my life back on track.
The advisor I spoke to was kind, understanding of my situation, and genuinely helpful.
My love reading shed light on my situation in a way I wasn’t able to see on my own, and I was finally able to clear my head and heal my heart.
Not only can a gifted advisor tell you what to do to avoid your false twin flame hurting you, but they can reveal all your future love possibilities.
4) Don’t be afraid to end the relationship if necessary
Can I be totally honest with you?
There are some people who will say that you should never end a relationship, even if it’s not working.
They may even say that you should always try to “work on it” first.
But this isn’t always the right advice.
Sometimes, even if you stay in a relationship, the person will never change their ways or become the person you want them to be.
And it’s especially true with your false twin flame.
Because if you have a false twin flame, then they’re not the person you’re meant to be with.
So if your relationship is causing you pain, then it’s better to end it than to stay in a situation that’s not good for you.
And if you are in a toxic relationship with your false twin flame, you need to end it as quickly as possible.
You may think that if you end the relationship with your false twin flame, you’ll look like a quitter.
Or maybe you’re afraid that you’ll lose your twin flame if you end the relationship. But ending the relationship with your false twin flame will not jeopardize your future relationships with your true twin flame.
In fact, ending a false twin flame relationship early will help you find your true twin flame faster.
And your real twin flame will not have to deal with a messy break-up situation, and they won’t have to be stuck in a relationship that isn’t right for them.
So remember that you don’t want to get stuck in a false twin flame relationship.
5) Be honest with yourself about your feelings
Another important way to avoid getting hurt by your false twin flame is, to be honest with yourself about your feelings.
Even if you’re not sure what you’re feeling, it’s important to stay aware of how you feel and to take note of any changes in how you feel.
For example, if you start feeling like someone is more than a friend, then it could indicate that they might be your twin flame.
But if you’re not sure how you feel about them, then it’s better to hold back on talking about your feelings until you are really sure what they are.
And don’t forget that just because someone seems like a great match for you now doesn’t mean they will always be a great match for you.
But how can being honest help you prevent getting hurt by your false twin flame?
Here’s the thing:
When you’re involved in a false twin flame relationship, it can be easy to delude yourself into thinking that you’ve found your soulmate.
You might ignore the red flags and signs that your partner is not the right person for you. You might ignore everything that’s going on in your relationship and hope that it will magically turn around.
And guess what? The best thing you can do for yourself is, to be honest with yourself about who you’re choosing to be with.
You need to ask yourself some tough questions, like:
- Are you being treated well?
- Are you happy in this relationship?
- Do you feel safe in this relationship?
- Are you treated with respect in this relationship?
So even if the person seems perfect right now, remember that things can change. And it’s best not to get attached until things are more certain.
6) Realize that this relationship is teaching you something
Have you ever looked at the relationship with your false twin flame in terms of what it’s teaching you?
When you experience a false twin flame relationship, it can be easy to think that you’re stupid. You might think that you’re picking the wrong people and you don’t know what you are doing.
But the truth is that the person you’re with is teaching you something. Their actions are revealing a part of yourself that you need to become aware of.
For example, maybe you’re not as confident as you thought. Maybe you’re used to people making decisions for you, and it takes some time to get used to making your own decisions.
Or maybe you are in a relationship with someone more interested in being right than being happy. And it’s showing you that this is something that is not good for your happiness.
So if you can learn from your experience with your false twin flame, then why not try to do this instead of focusing on what they did wrong?
Remember: the most important thing here is learning how to take care of yourself in the future, so why not use what’s happening now as an opportunity?
As a result, you’ll learn how to deal with a certain type of person or situation. They might be learning how to deal with feelings that they’ve been avoiding.
Or they might be having relationship problems in order to learn what it takes to have a healthy long-term relationship.
So if you’re having problems in your relationship, then try looking at what the problem is and what you might be able to learn from it.
You can even look at your false twin flame relationship as an opportunity for self-growth and an opportunity for healing past wounds.
7) Have low expectations and know it may end badly
Let’s be honest:
The key to surviving a false twin flame relationship is to have low expectations.
You can’t expect your relationship to last forever. You can’t expect your partner to be your soulmate.
You need to accept the fact that your relationship may end badly. Sometimes relationships end badly.
Sometimes they end prematurely. Sometimes one person just isn’t the right person for the other person.
And you know what?
You can’t control how long your relationship will last. You can only control what you do during the relationship and how you handle the relationship when it ends.
You want to be with someone who is a good fit for you. And you want to end your relationship with them on good terms.
Low expectations mean that you won’t get your heart broken. And the less you get your heart broken, the better the chances are that you’ll be able to move on when it’s time.
If you expect a lot from someone, then you’re probably going to be disappointed. So don’t expect a lot from your false twin flame relationship.
And if things do go wrong, then don’t try to blame yourself or them for what happened. Don’t take responsibility for something that wasn’t your fault and don’t hold onto anger towards them because they hurt you in some way.
It’s not easy to get over someone who wasn’t right for you in the first place – but it is possible if you give yourself enough time and space to heal.
But how can you manage to deal with the fact that it may end badly?
For this, I recommend getting a personalized reading from one of the gifted advisors over at Psychic Source.
I mentioned them earlier.
They’ve been a great source of comfort and guidance when I’ve faced issues in my love life, and their specialist advisers are well trained in the area of twin flame relationships.
So, what are you waiting for?
From giving you clarity on the situation to supporting you as you make life-changing decisions, these advisors will empower you to make decisions about your love life with confidence.
8) Know you’re not alone, and you’ll find your true soulmate eventually
I’m not going to lie.
It’s hard to get over someone who is the twin flame of your soul.
But getting over them is only one part of the struggle.
You also need to find a partner who is right for you, and that can take time too.
When you’re involved in a false twin flame relationship, you may feel like you’re the only person who has ever gone through this.
You might think that you’re the only person to have ever been tricked by a false twin flame.
But the truth is that somewhere, someone exists who’s getting ready to find you and make you realize that they’re your real soulmate.
And if you’re willing to put in the work, you will find them.
I know that it can be hard to believe, but I promise that it’s true – you will meet your twin flame and recognize them.
You just need to be patient and have faith that your soulmate is out there waiting for you.
And when they do come along, it’ll feel like a long-lost friend has finally returned home.
So, if you want things to work out in the long run, then you need to be patient with yourself and know that it’s okay to feel sad when you’re going through a tough time.
9) Don’t force yourself to feel something that’s not there
This is probably the most important thing I want to say here.
If you are in a relationship with someone who is not your twin flame but you are trying to force yourself to feel something for them that isn’t there, then don’t do this.
It will just cause more harm than good.
I know this because I’ve been there myself, and it didn’t work out well at all.
So don’t try and be with someone just because they match some of the traits of your twin flame or just because they “look like” your twin flame (whatever that means).
And most importantly, don’t ever force yourself to be with someone because you feel like you need to be in a relationship.
If you do this, then it will just cause more harm than good in the long run.
And if your twin flame is not there for you right now, then don’t worry about it.
Just keep your eyes open and be patient, and they’ll come back into your life when they’re ready to do so.
10) Trust your gut
How are you feeling about your current relationship with someone you identify as your false twin flame?
Do you feel like they are your twin flames?
Or do you just feel like they’re nice to be around, but not the person who you’re supposed to be with forever?
If it’s the latter, then there’s no need to worry.
It’s completely normal for you not to feel a connection with them because they are not your twin flame.
In either case, here’s something you should never forget:
Keep an open mind when you meet someone new, and trust your intuition. If something doesn’t feel right, it probably isn’t.
So trust your gut and know that if things don’t work out between you and this person, then it’s okay.
You are going to find your real soulmate at some point in time, so don’t worry about it.
And when that time comes, it’ll be easy for you to recognize them as the person who completes your soul.
11) Don’t be afraid to walk away
I’m going to say something that might be a little controversial here, but I’m going to say it anyway.
If you’ve met your false twin flame, there’s a chance that you’re not even meant to be with them.
If the connection with your partner feels more like a one-night stand than a relationship, they may not be your twin flame.
This doesn’t mean that you’re bad at dating or that there’s something wrong with you.
But you want to prevent them from hurting your feelings, don’t you?
In this case, it can be a lot easier to walk away from a false twin flame than it is to walk away from the true twin flame.
You may want to walk away from a false twin flame because you know that they’re not the person for you.
And if you choose to walk away from your false twin flame, you don’t have to feel guilty about it.
Instead, it’s a good thing.
It means that you’re growing as an individual and that you’re learning more about what you want in a partner.
So, learn from this experience and move on.
Let the false twin flame relationship be a distant memory. Let it guide and shape you as an individual so that you can move forward and find the person who is right for you.
12) Don’t let your false twin flame manipulate your feelings
And the final yip that I want to give you is this:
Don’t let your false twin flame manipulate your feelings into believing that they are your soulmate.
There’s a good chance that when you meet your twin flame, it’ll be easy for them to make you feel like they’re the one.
But if you let them, they might be able to manipulate your feelings and make it seem like their relationship is the one that you’ve always been looking for.
But what I want to tell you is this: if someone tries to manipulate your feelings, then walk away from the relationship because there’s no way that it will last.
It’s not going to work out between the two of you, so don’t waste time on a false twin flame.
if you notice that this person tries to manipulate your feelings, don’t even think that something is ever going to change.
They’re not your true twin flames, and you’re wasting your time.
Just walk away and know that if someone is manipulating your feelings into thinking that they are the one, then they aren’t.
And in this case, it’s better for everyone involved if you walk away from them now rather than later.
A false twin flame is a connection that you feel keenly but has no lasting power.
It’s important to trust your gut, be transparent about what you want, and don’t be afraid to walk away when you meet your false twin flame.
Hopefully, you should now have a good idea of how to prevent your false twin flame from hurting you. But if you’d still like to get more clarity on the situation, speaking to a gifted advisor is the best way to go.
I mentioned Psychic Source earlier. Based on my own personal experience with them, I know they’re the real deal. Their advisors are kind and genuinely helpful.
So, if you really want to get to the bottom of how to handle your false twin flame relationship, get in touch with an advisor and take your future into your own hands. I did, and it changed my life.