Can’t get her out of your head? Wondering if what you’re feeling is the real thing? Wondering whether you should call, text, or just move on?
The uncertainty of love can be a difficult time for anyone. We’ve got you covered.
Here are 11 reasons why she won’t stop popping into your thoughts.
1) You might just be falling in love with her
Of course, this is the most obvious answer, but it’s still worth putting at the top of the list. Sometimes even thinking about falling in love can bring up confusing feelings.
If you’re starting to feel something for this girl, trying to pinpoint exactly what those feelings mean is pretty normal.
So what does this mean?
Try to figure out if you’re falling for her or not.
If you are, be honest with yourself. You can’t force those feelings to go away, but you can make sure that you’re ready to have them before pursuing her in a more serious way.
If it’s just a crush, give yourself some time to get over her.
Love takes time and focus, and if you’re going to go after someone thinking that it’s love when it’s just a crush, things could get messy fast.
Pro tip:
Pay close attention to how you feel when you’re thinking about her. If you’re only feeling good, then it’s most likely love. But if you find yourself dreading being alone and thinking that you can’t live without her, be honest with yourself and step back.
This is the beginning of codependency. Straight-up all-encompassing, obsessive love isn’t a great place to be in or to force on someone else.
2) She’s the right girl, but there’s something holding you back
Have you ever found yourself thinking about someone, but if you had the chance to be with them, you wouldn’t?
You like her. You’re attracted to her and she’s pretty on the inside and out. You know that you would be able to have a good time with her, but there’s something holding you back.
This can be a confusing feeling for anyone, especially if it’s not the first time it’s happened or if it happens often.
Here are some reasons that might hold you back:
- You’re scared of getting hurt.
- You’ve got too big dreams.
- You have a past.
If you find yourself thinking about someone regularly without pursuing her, there’s something in your head that’s blocking you from doing so. The key is to figure out what it is, and then you can find a way to move forward with confidence.
That means getting over what’s holding you back. If it’s fear, figure out how you can face that fear head-on.
If it’s your dreams, go after them and make them a reality. And if it’s your past, then be honest with yourself about how you feel and how much of a role it will play in your future relationships.
The goal is to open yourself up for an opportunity with this girl without any worries or fears or distractions holding you back from going for what you really want.
3) What would a gifted advisor say?
The signs in this article will give you an insight into what your feelings mean.
Even so, issues related to love and dating can be confusing at the best of times, especially as your situation is unique to you.
So could getting some outside guidance help?
After a really challenging breakup, I found that speaking to an advisor from Psychic Source was super helpful.
The advisor I spoke to was kind, understanding, and genuinely helpful.
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4) She’s struggling with something in her life
The truth is:
We easily can fall in love with someone who’s having a tough time.
Maybe she really needs someone to talk to, or maybe you know that you would be the perfect person to help her, but she hasn’t given you the chance.
The best part about this situation is that even if she doesn’t want your help at first, most of the time it’s for personal reasons rather than because she thinks there’s something wrong with you.
She could just be working out her own mental issues before turning to someone else for advice.
If you find yourself feeling an emotional connection and physical attraction towards a girl who puts up a wall at first and gives you mixed signals, stand firm and be patient until things start moving in your direction.
Remember to take the lead by giving her space and giving her the opportunity to open up when and if she wants it, rather than forcing yourself on her when all signs point towards this not being what she wants right now.
And the most important thing here is to remember that there is a reason why things have been this way thus far; don’t expect them to change overnight unless something has changed for her internally.
Patience is key here; just let it play out how it will without putting pressure on yourself or her.
Being patient during this stage may mean waiting longer than expected (sometimes even weeks), but ultimately it will pay off once trust has been built up between the two of you.
5) She has the potential to bring out your best self
Another reason why you keep thinking about this girl is that she brings out the best in you.
Sometimes it’s hard to see your own flaws when you’re so close to yourself. But every time you’re with her, she makes you a better person.
The way she looks at you when you think no one’s watching, or the way she laughs at your stupid jokes, or even the way she can bring out a smile just by talking to her on the phone… those are all signs telling you that she has potential to bring out your best self and make you a more grounded man… which is basically what every guy wants.
Want to know the best part?
She’s probably been doing it for some time without even realizing it.
Every time you’re with her, she expands your comfort zone by forcing you to go out of your way to please her.
If you’ve ever felt like a tongue-tied fool trying to think of something clever to say when around this girl or felt nervous trying to impress her with your words, or even felt scared and vulnerable allowing her into the darkest parts of your heart… then you already know that she’s been exercising your emotional muscles and pushing you towards being a better man.
If she’s made it this far, the best part is that she won’t stop at the surface level improvement. If you give her the opportunity, she’ll dig deeper and find the real issues holding you back from becoming the man that you want to be.
6) She reminds you of someone you care about
I bet this one caught you off guard.
Why would a girl remind you of someone else?
Isn’t it supposed to be your ego thinking about her all the time?
Let me explain…
You care about her because she reminds you of the family (grandparents, uncles, aunts, etc.), someone close to you (best friend, little brother/sister, or cousin), or even a personality trait from yourself.
Because she reminds you of someone that’s close to your heart, you find yourself falling for her and wanting more than anything else in the world to be with her.
7) She seems too good to be true
This may sound like a “duh” but it’s worth mentioning.
Who wouldn’t be amazed by someone who seems to have everything going for them?
She’s great in school. She has the athletic ability of the guys. She has a great family, she’s pretty and always smiles… It’s hard not to see her as too good to be true.
You think about her all the time and you can’t focus on anything else for long before you start thinking about how awesome she is.
Maybe she did some little things for attention but they just seem so big and grandiose that you can’t help but think she’s an awesome person.
That makes her seem too good to be true.
But the key here is that you may have imagined these things to be true before even meeting her.
The truth is that she just might turn out the opposite of what she’s made you think.
So build yourself up before you meet her and if you still think she’s the girl of your dreams, then move on to the next point.
8) You have trust issues from a previous relationship
I think this is the single biggest thing that holds a lot of guys back from getting the girl they want and one of the reasons why you can’t stop thinking about her.
Chances are your trust issues from a previous relationship went way deeper than you realize and the new girl that’s currently giving you the love of your life wont be able to fix this for you.
You might have even made yourself believe that no girl could make up for the girl who broke your heart.
And it turns out that you keep repeating the same pattern because you keep setting yourself up for failure.
Now it’s time to break that pattern.
Break it and get the girl that you want.
Here are the step-by-step instructions for how to break the pattern:
- Start by looking at all the great things in your life right now and the good things that you’ve achieved.
- Work on your self-confidence instead of setting yourself up to fail by believing that no girl is going to ever love you as much as your ex did.
- Take stock of how amazing you are right now and make it a habit to tell others how great you are regularly.
And if you feel like this isn’t enough, just drop me a comment below… I’ll be happy to tell you more about this and help it work for you 🙂
9) She is your twin flame
You keep thinking of her, even dreaming of her. You want to be with her, it’s not just a crush.
You feel like you could tell her anything and she would understand you and accept you for who you are, even if she doesn’t like some things about you (like your past)
That’s because she is your twin flame.
“Twin flame” is a term that describes a pair of souls who have a strong attraction to each other.
This is what you feel when you can’t stop thinking about her, the way she makes you feel, and the fact that this is so powerful that it transcends what you used to think was love.
Here are some other signs that you’re experiencing twin flames:
- You feel a deep connection and when something happens in your life, she seems to be the first person you think about
- You feel so connected to her that it’s like you’re sharing one single soul
- You want to spend every waking moment with her, even when that means not having any time for the people you love
- Because of this connection, any pain or sadness she feels affects you as well
- You are aware of every bit of her thoughts and feelings, even though you’re not dealing with the same situation
- You feel a sense of “oneness” whenever you’re with her, even if it looks like you’re being separated by a distance
- You dream about her often (often from “twin flame dreams”)
But as you know, it can be confusing as to whether you’re actually experiencing twin flames or not. That’s why I recommend speaking to one of the gifted advisors over at Psychic Source.
I mentioned them earlier.
They’ve been incredibly helpful in the past when I’ve needed guidance on my love life, and they’ll certainly be able to help you with this insight as well.
Whether you prefer to chat online, or jump on a call and speak face-to-face, you can get clarity on this situation right now.
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10) She has qualities you admire
Here’s an interesting fact:
This is very common, as many of us have a lot of things that we admire about someone, and then some aspects about them which we don’t like.
As long as you admire what you admire and appreciate what you appreciate, I think that’s all that should matter.
After all, the definition of love is not wanting to be with the person because they are perfect. It’s wanting to be with them because they are perfect for you.
Not only do you admire her, you probably love her as well, so it’s time to stop thinking about her and start being with her.
This is the icing on the cake because if you’re already thinking about being with someone and admiring them, then it’s probably because you want to be with them.
So start setting your mind on that goal – think about what you would want in a relationship and how it could happen between her and you.
12) She’s unpredictable but in a good way
She’s funny and quirky.
You never know what she’s going to say next or she may say something that is so random that you don’t even know how to respond to it.
That is the reason why you can’t stop thinking about her.
You want to hold on to every word she says because you would want to remember it one day when you hear it.
She is unpredictable but in a good way, so if you like this, then go for it and be with her!
Keep in mind:
If she’s unpredictable but in a bad way, that means she’s going to be hard to read and understand.
So make sure you have enough time and energy to invest in this relationship because if you don’t they won’t work out long-term.
Final thoughts
We’ve covered 11 reasons why you’re thinking too much about this girl. Now all you need to do is figure out which of these reasons is the one that’s holding you back and take action.
Just remember that you’re not always going to get what you want in life when you want it. It takes time and effort, but if she’s the one – then it’s worth fighting for!
But if you’re still unsure, I recommend getting in touch with a trustworthy advisor.
I mentioned Psychic Source earlier. Based on my own personal experience with them, I know they’re kind and genuinely helpful.
So instead of leaving things up to chance, take control of this situation and clarify what’s in store for your future.
Speaking to one of their advisors was a turning point for me, and I think it could be for you too. Especially if you want to find out about the person you keep thinking about.
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