Can one twin flame not know? Here’s what you need to know

Twin flames, also known as cosmic lovers, are believed to be a spiritual union of two people that has been pre-ordained from the Beginning of Time.

While some people may have heard about them, most are unsure what they are, who they are, and even if they exist!

And because a lot of people have never even heard of this concept before, the question arises whether one twin flame might not know about the connection at all!

If you find yourself in that situation, here is everything you need to know:

Can one twin flame not know about the connection?

This is a very valid question!

The short answer is yes, one person can be oblivious to the concept of twin flames.

The concept of twin flames is often associated with love and soulmates.

And while twin flames are indeed a type of soulmate, they come with a different set of rules and dynamics.

The first difference is that twin flames come with a karmic bond.

You are supposed to complete each other’s missions on Earth, help each other to achieve full self-realization, and heal one another from old wounds.

As such, it’s not a coincidence that you found each other in this lifetime. Each twin flame is supposed to find their other half, complete the karmic bond, and then meet once again in another life.

A twin flame connection is something that’s very intense, magical, and all-consuming.

And often, these are relationships that are incredibly passionate and last a very long time.

So, if you find yourself with a twin flame and one of you doesn’t know about the connection, then it’s very possible they just don’t feel it or recognize it at all!

Even though this connection is so strong and passionate, if someone has never read into twin flames, they might have no idea what is going on.

Let’s take a look at why that is:

Why might one twin flame not know about the connection?

The thing is, you can only perceive whatever you shift your awareness to.

So, if you never heard of the concept of twin flames, you obviously won’t think about that when meeting someone new.

Even though you might feel all the signs of having an out-of-this-world connection, your partner might not interpret anything into it and simply think you share a deep bond!

That can be a really good thing, as you can balance each other out.

To be honest with you, I think that simply not being interested in spiritual concepts is the entire explanation of why one twin flame might be oblivious to the connection.

However: some people have some very interesting ideas about why their partner might not believe in twin flames. This is what they think:

Twin flames come with having shared many lifetimes together. This means that you and your twin flame already have a past together.

In other words, if you don’t recognize the twin flame connection, it’s very likely that you’ve been suppressing your memories of these lifetimes!

Over the millennia, you’ve been choosing to forget this past so that you can make better choices in the present.

This is important because the history between you and your twin flame might not be pretty.

It’s not just a romantic bond between two lovers; it’s a karmic bond that comes with a lot of baggage.

And this baggage is often difficult to look at, let alone accept and integrate into your current life!

So if one twin flame doesn’t know about the connection, it’s very likely that they’ve been suppressing their memories and experiences with you for a very long time!

Now, whether you believe in this story of not is up to you – personally, I do believe that it’s a simple case of not having read into the concept of twin flames.

But what if you want to share your knowledge with them? How do you explain it to them without scaring them away?

How to explain twin flames to your partner without scaring them away

So, let’s say that your twin flame doesn’t know about the twin flame connection and is completely oblivious about it.

And now, you want to share the knowledge with them.

What do you do? How do you explain it in a way that won’t scare your partner away or make them think you are crazy?!

There are a few things that will help:

• don’t pressure them into anything
• don’t immediately flood them with everything you want to talk about
• don’t tell them you think they are your twin flame, tell them about the concept first and let them connect the dots
• perhaps let go of the idea a little bit so that you can just enjoy your relationship with them

Of course, before you even talk about all those things, you need to be sure that they are your twin flame:

How do you find out if you’re a twin flame?

Finding out if you are a twin flame is not very difficult, but it can be a long process.

First of all, you need to find your twin flame, and that can take a while, depending on where you are at in your life!

Most twin flames are not aware of their twin flame connection either, so you’re not alone in this journey.

The best way to find out if you have a twin flame is to look at your past relationships and your current relationship and see how they are different.

If you feel like there’s something special in this new relationship, like you’ve been searching for it for a very long time, then it’s very possible that you are a twin flame!

You see, when twin flames meet, it feels as though they have known each other their entire life.

It’s a feeling that is beyond words and can only be understood when you experience it!

Now, do you only realize you have a twin flame when you meet them, or can you tell before meeting?

Does a twin flame know about their other half before meeting them in person?

While it’s true that twin flames are supposed to feel an immediate connection when they meet each other, it’s also true that this connection is not always apparent.

Some people, on the other hand, swear they felt the connection even before meeting their twin flame in person!

As you can see, it really depends on the person and the circumstances!

What if your twin flame doesn’t believe in the concept when you tell them about it?

If your twin flame doesn’t believe in the twin flame connection, you might believe that they’ve been suppressing their memories and experiences with you for a very long time.

It’s important to understand that just because you are not believing in a concept doesn’t mean that you are repressing anything.

Think about it: nobody can prove that twin flames are real, so if your partner doesn’t believe in the concept, you can’t prove that you are right and they are wrong.

Who says that you’re not the one who is interpreting things into this relationship when it’s really just a good, strong bond?

The best thing to do is to talk about it and explain your point of view.

You don’t have to prove anything, just keep explaining why you believe in this concept.

However, if your twin flame doesn’t want to believe in it, then you can’t force them.

In that case it might be helpful to get a more grounded view on the whole twin flame concept.

Think about it this way: you can believe that they are your twin flame, but in the end, it won’t really make a difference whether you believe in it or not.

Your relationship will be good or bad regardless!

And maybe your partner has a point when they don’t want to believe in a concept like that. You see, these ideas are not always harmless and innocent:

The dangers of clinging to theories like that

As we’ve discussed above, twin flames are supposed to be together until they’ve completed their missions.

However, clinging to ideas like that can lead to very unhealthy relationship patterns such as codependency.

When you believe that your twin flame is the only one who can make you happy, it might be hard to let go of them even if they aren’t treating you well.

You might even feel like you have to control the situation by making sure that they are yours forever.

This is why it’s important to realize that just because you believe someone is your twin flame doesn’t mean that they are perfect and the only one who can fulfill you!

That’s actually another issue with this idea – you are already whole on your own, you don’t need someone to be your other half!

When you keep believing that there is someone out there who will finally fill that void inside of you and make you happy, you will never find fulfillment!

You first need to be happy on your own before you can be in a happy and healthy relationship.

Justin Brown made an excellent video below, about the dark side to believing in twin flames, and if you are here reading this article, I can highly recommend it to you.

Sometimes, we believe in concepts, unaware of the fact that they can be quite detrimental to our happiness!

After you’ve watched the video, you will also understand this next point a lot better:

What if your twin flame doesn’t care about these topics?

If your twin flame doesn’t believe in the concept of twin flames, that’s totally okay.

You see, you don’t need them to believe in twin flames in order to have a happy relationship!

So if you are with someone who isn’t aware of these concepts, that doesn’t mean you will have a bad relationship!

The number one thing I can advise you is to not push your beliefs onto your twin flame.

If you feel like you can’t be with someone who doesn’t believe in this stuff, then that’s your choice, but if you keep pushing your ideas onto your partner, they might eventually get fed up and not want to be with you anymore.

Think about it: they probably feel like some of the ideas of this concept sound a bit toxic, and so they might think that you are a bit toxic too!

If you meet someone who does believe in this stuff, that’s great, but if not, it’s okay.

Just make sure to respect their beliefs and ideas about twin flames as well.

That brings me to my next point:

Can you be in a relationship with someone who doesn’t care for these topics?

This depends entirely on you. Can you let go of the idea of twin flames and simply enjoy your relationship for what it is?

The thing is, even if you believe in twin flames – if the universe is truly guiding you, you’ll reach all your goals whether your twin flame believes that they are your twin flame or not.

For your mission or your relationship, it makes no difference.

Sure, you will have an incredibly strong connection with your twin flame, but does it really matter if they believe that’s due to strong love or a spiritual connection?

No matter what you want to call it, the core of it will always stay the same, and that’s what you should be focusing on.

Maybe you don’t have to hyper-fixate on the term twin flame, and instead just enjoy your relationship for what it is.

Maybe you can focus on the spiritual aspect of your relationship and not worry about who is right and who is wrong.

Perhaps you can just enjoy the fact that you have a strong connection with someone and not question why or how.

There are so many things in life that we don’t know, and maybe it’s better to just accept them as they are rather than trying to fixate on one specific idea.

Final thoughts

I get it, sometimes, having a name for something we can’t explain can feel like we are a bit more in control of things.

But let’s be real: it doesn’t matter at all whether or not your partner believes in the same concept you do.

What matters is that you are on the same page about the truly important things, like how to love one another and how to communicate.

When that works well, everything else will just fall into place.

And who knows, maybe your partner’s skepticism will help you find a more grounded and healthy approach to the concept of twin flames, too!